tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-71134389760255164562024-03-19T05:56:29.382-07:00thegoandgrowfamilyA family living as simply & happily as possible! Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger102125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113438976025516456.post-85650267999239877242021-11-18T11:17:00.002-08:002021-11-18T11:18:06.793-08:004 DRESSES FOR THANKSGIVING <p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWhYU5nEYZlahF7b0OmcjpjGxk0DD62s-agxBIAxRD9Xz2C0qstv495BGo7-6swTGknfvTbxCVhjTKmBykNq6f7189EDDb05WtHe5lhGHBrvsB_0_91IETR-TG1Z3jSGlP0KZNHiQZAjQ/s2048/9D9A1184.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1365" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWhYU5nEYZlahF7b0OmcjpjGxk0DD62s-agxBIAxRD9Xz2C0qstv495BGo7-6swTGknfvTbxCVhjTKmBykNq6f7189EDDb05WtHe5lhGHBrvsB_0_91IETR-TG1Z3jSGlP0KZNHiQZAjQ/s16000/9D9A1184.JPG" /></a></div><br /> <p></p><p> </p><p></p><p>A good dress is everything! I love dresses because you don't have to worry about matching your outfit and since dresses are back in style there are many pretty options for really reasonable prices! Thanksgiving is next week and instead of trying to scramble to find an outfit I encourage you to try a dress. Here are some really reasonable options!</p><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjjjoMV7p0XJNEvem64vIZMihqX32J8Oc2njUnuaUsBdca4IAvZ3bkoLoE264kLUfw2WmEPd28dMi0T7JSyjLifPbm4Q-kQdYxGe_cAWRGmr6oRyefDwJclDWN5TED_Jdz0JYX6p6GApGQ/s2048/IMG_2596.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjjjoMV7p0XJNEvem64vIZMihqX32J8Oc2njUnuaUsBdca4IAvZ3bkoLoE264kLUfw2WmEPd28dMi0T7JSyjLifPbm4Q-kQdYxGe_cAWRGmr6oRyefDwJclDWN5TED_Jdz0JYX6p6GApGQ/s16000/IMG_2596.JPG" /></a></div><p>1. A wrap dress is perfect for the holidays because it slims the waistline and hides any food babies! The wrap on this one is faux but it does the trick! I love that it has pockets! It's the perfect combination of dark blue and green and everyone looks great in a v neck! </p><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtZBxGiDTFfjaKvqnvLpTTni_i3aFz5DLcbd4JUWmnsSwIUJSeYimu_l_fcFtLGW4YTOEacTcw0TVaZiJQzD6s6piF7LnJEtgdf-KXbhbi70yCgBgSxEG9_K2vltzNXQB7oqT1ZpdexAc/s2048/IMG_2599.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtZBxGiDTFfjaKvqnvLpTTni_i3aFz5DLcbd4JUWmnsSwIUJSeYimu_l_fcFtLGW4YTOEacTcw0TVaZiJQzD6s6piF7LnJEtgdf-KXbhbi70yCgBgSxEG9_K2vltzNXQB7oqT1ZpdexAc/s16000/IMG_2599.JPG" /></a></div><br /><p>2. I just love this sweater dress!! It's one of my favorite colors and it's so cozy. The only thing is that it doesn't hide a food baby very well. If you don't mind a little tummy poke go for it! But if you have rude family members that might ask if you're pregnant go with number 1 or 3. See...I don't mind! Four boys later... I feel so happy in my body because I know that it hasn't just held me up! It's sustained life! Rock it if you can!!</p><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXOD50Pe3EWuzcjuIiO9pPKgAusImvpr9Lu6M1tRrylJjrdEp43f7KnT04KqSIs3hmCrMFguPDOfLBHUlTbhQ8klmGk6YsZJALsUd4yuqzNL6EGl6GO3V7_e9l8G8WdjtHrvUV1LemxUk/s2048/IMG_2600.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXOD50Pe3EWuzcjuIiO9pPKgAusImvpr9Lu6M1tRrylJjrdEp43f7KnT04KqSIs3hmCrMFguPDOfLBHUlTbhQ8klmGk6YsZJALsUd4yuqzNL6EGl6GO3V7_e9l8G8WdjtHrvUV1LemxUk/s16000/IMG_2600.JPG" /></a></div><p>3. Say hello to one of the comfiest dresses I've ever worn! The delicate floral print is to die for and it's shade of green is perfection! It also has pockets! I paired all of these dresses with white boots because it literally goes with everything!! It's currently on clearance for $25.49 so run to the link below to get it!! </p><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgSvviEPPh8Zg2mCx-ON5zU-ZHgh-C_-rL6fn5N3cO86_7kH6ll7WenwyLCiLEzGtUbjUVu68aCr3Z8UOlqNQ9QF731DIjrOpURdS2BJVfX88m3ulFkd1ebyuvP1ngAWsGNCGTD3NFk4So/s2048/IMG_2595.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgSvviEPPh8Zg2mCx-ON5zU-ZHgh-C_-rL6fn5N3cO86_7kH6ll7WenwyLCiLEzGtUbjUVu68aCr3Z8UOlqNQ9QF731DIjrOpURdS2BJVfX88m3ulFkd1ebyuvP1ngAWsGNCGTD3NFk4So/s16000/IMG_2595.JPG" /></a></div><p>4. I love a good velvet dress for the holidays! It's so chic and says ,"this lady is ready for all the festivities!" I call this my mystery dress because as soon as I picked it up from my local Target it was nowhere to be found! I couldn't find it in their system to link it so <a href="https://us.shein.com/Lantern-Sleeve-Ruffle-Hem-Velvet-Dress-p-3071657-cat-1727.html?url_from=adplasw2107026723520399XS&gclid=Cj0KCQiAkNiMBhCxARIsAIDDKNUi8IAnu4-HYH8dZOVT6Vvri_GGmyp-8O-n0xWlym3UOFPHY8GZc9IaAt0cEALw_wcB">here is a similar one! </a></p><p>I hope that you have a very Happy Thanksgiving! I'm so thankful for each of you!! <br /></p><p><br /></p>
<div class="shopthepost-widget" data-widget-id="4633340"><script type="text/javascript">!function(w,i,d,g,e,t){d.getElementById(i)||(element=d.createElement(t),element.id=i,element.src="https://widgets.rewardstyle.com"+e,d.body.appendChild(element)),w.hasOwnProperty(g)===!0&&"complete"===d.readyState&&w[g].init()}(window,"shopthepost-script",document,"__stp","/js/shopthepost.js","script")</script><div class="rs-adblock"><img onerror="this.parentNode.innerHTML="Disable your ad blocking software to view this content."" src="https://assets.rewardstyle.com/production/9ac77a31248d906f2bf29bc3ded9691d8df76a52/images/search/350.gif" style="height: 15px; width: 15px;" /><noscript>JavaScript is currently disabled in this browser. Reactivate it to view this content.</noscript></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113438976025516456.post-78150373342870121512021-11-05T17:00:00.001-07:002021-11-05T17:00:41.458-07:007 WAYS TO BOND AS A BUSY FAMILY<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfeEnUDXdS5G1rvbmNqD8cSFTh1nSswJEMicbdkJTtmnnMbQtcL9-L48dmAc5NIs6VI7XY8RAXFPlvORJo6nNaV23D0C0YRT9wLjrEIj9i-6ZjVyA6vXPrm6-LDj5RUi5WxtNw96K83nM/s2048/9D9A0804.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfeEnUDXdS5G1rvbmNqD8cSFTh1nSswJEMicbdkJTtmnnMbQtcL9-L48dmAc5NIs6VI7XY8RAXFPlvORJo6nNaV23D0C0YRT9wLjrEIj9i-6ZjVyA6vXPrm6-LDj5RUi5WxtNw96K83nM/s16000/9D9A0804.JPG" /></a></div><p></p><br /><p style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">Our family is large and busy and we each want to live full lives! The boys want to play all the sports, I want to work, volunteer, and attend all of the events and hubby also has his hands full with working and volunteering in the community. The pandemic forced us to pay attention to our family dynamics as we were all cooped up in the house together. We've bonded so much and I want that positive side effect of the pandemic to continue although our lives are returning to "normal". Here are 7 ways you can also improve your family bond while being busy;</span></p><p style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"> </span></p><p style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><b style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">1. Have dinner at the table together! </span></b><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">- It's at the dinner table that we hear all the funny jokes about what happened at school that day or what events are coming up. You don't even have to be a great cook to make this happen either! Takeout at the dinner table would do too! The main point is to talk as a family and there's nothing quite like connecting over a meal! </span></p><p style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></span></p><p> <b style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">2. Do chores together</span></b><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"> - You may not believe it, but working together brings us closer. Hubby has the best bonding time while chopping wood or doing yard work with the boys. I bond with them while inviting them into the kitchen to cook with me or do work in the garden. We also do 5-minute cleanups together! 5 minutes might not seem like a lot of time, but with 6 of us that equates to 30 minutes of work done in 5 minutes</span>! We pick a room and get going! <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-y2Ut6aFwac">This </a>is our favorite 5 minute cleanup song! </p><p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXfq7kZ-gilRGjI1nr_7R7VSCGTdRkPFzE3vAq86oxA51Rcm0Rc4mUwgpKHKl1HJrThMa64Z87ePJXLzERJX5UadsGBjZkMTZkDIOvEfH15kG2-5NKSfuCNflCJN3SlcSO4IAFyzzvsho/s2048/9D9A0744.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXfq7kZ-gilRGjI1nr_7R7VSCGTdRkPFzE3vAq86oxA51Rcm0Rc4mUwgpKHKl1HJrThMa64Z87ePJXLzERJX5UadsGBjZkMTZkDIOvEfH15kG2-5NKSfuCNflCJN3SlcSO4IAFyzzvsho/s16000/9D9A0744.JPG" /></a></div><p style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><b style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"> </span></b></p><p style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><b style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"> </span></b></p><p style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><b style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">3. Host the play-date! </span></b><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">- To bond with your kiddos -- especially middle and high schoolers, you have to get to know their friends and provide a safe environment for them to have fun. We recently hosted a video game night and we scored some cool points with the kids. They may not say it but they feel closer to you when you lean into the people and activities that bring them joy. I don't like video games but for my preteen I will I would surely host a party!</span></p><p style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><b style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">4. Getaway/ adventure together </span></b><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">- Our family adventures bring us much closer to each other. We build memories that are just ours and making a song up to keep us going while on a hike would do the trick! Whether it's flying or driving to a destination -- just do it! You will never regret the time you spend together!</span></p><p> </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg9ohvR-7VW5y2iNz8kswR-_E9pxLhtzADwd2kmKgQIymk6bzNuMd63YhRa_lMyjUtwxZQK38JgW9qlRmnYIS3FGBRONOmv3dcf5HTiPWcNKUN9uvu2rvVfcXAzBl_XHd33825l1OLV7yo/s2048/9D9A0756.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg9ohvR-7VW5y2iNz8kswR-_E9pxLhtzADwd2kmKgQIymk6bzNuMd63YhRa_lMyjUtwxZQK38JgW9qlRmnYIS3FGBRONOmv3dcf5HTiPWcNKUN9uvu2rvVfcXAzBl_XHd33825l1OLV7yo/s16000/9D9A0756.JPG" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><b style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">5. Make board games a thing! </span></b><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">- If board games aren't a thing in your home you should make it one! As a child, we didn't have a lot but we played board games almost every night. To this day my siblings and I have an inseparable bond. Some of our favorites are checkers, mancala, blokus, dominos, trouble, chess and scrabble. What are your favorites? Leave a comment and let me know! </span></p><p style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"> </span></p><p style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><b style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">6. Say No! </span></b><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">- Until the pandemic, I didn't realize how over-committing myself negatively impacted my family. As a girl, I wanted to save the world and as an adult, I still want to give of myself to make the community better. However, I realize that there is nothing noble about giving to the world and neglecting our home. After realizing that I mixed up the order of my priorities I started saying no to a lot of things that got in the way of our family time. At the end of the day, the job you love so much can replace you, your friends can replace you and the church can find a new leader. However, your family will never find another you. Give your all to those that will remember you most! <br /></span></p><p><b><br /></b></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEictkwcEcqf3kzPvI3bMaRCRVy2M9H8oYYnNZCeNMdip781U-hxKNjWpEmuegVwD3pF3GPnjcCvM5Ggii95u1pgpLNTLyPSQy1ThLaE1dGmNZlKytlawzbzDJ2bZV72uImyhUXp9JYinbs/s2048/Facetune-25-10-2021-20-35-49.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEictkwcEcqf3kzPvI3bMaRCRVy2M9H8oYYnNZCeNMdip781U-hxKNjWpEmuegVwD3pF3GPnjcCvM5Ggii95u1pgpLNTLyPSQy1ThLaE1dGmNZlKytlawzbzDJ2bZV72uImyhUXp9JYinbs/s16000/Facetune-25-10-2021-20-35-49.JPG" /></a></div><b></b><p></p><br /><p style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><b style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">7. Spend one on one time together </span></b><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">- When you have multiple children it's easy for one to get lost in the mix. We've all seen adults that felt isolated as children causing mayhem at the family gathering. Most times it's because they're still hurt. We try to make sure that each child feels special by going on dates (my 8 year old told me emphatically that it's not a date) with each of the boys. They get to pick the restaurant or the store they want to go to and it's amazing how happy they are to not compete for attention from their siblings. </span></p><p style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">One-on-one time as a couple is also a must! We try to go on date nights every 2 weeks so check in with each other's hearts.</span></p><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMwrpMStQAOvbDC0SYGzhsg3bjUmibAREoyMiYn-8YBsI5FvSE7-q0TB0N7iK5_PrgWRArP4M0mH6tHbfJBRYsxrMmZVrPhg3hMDEm1iIt84YvRiP6eDYxgtdMhHijBsNPdbNfi8QqpkA/s1104/EBAA2D21-A0FE-441D-A0D1-C13CFDEF6634.PNG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1104" data-original-width="735" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMwrpMStQAOvbDC0SYGzhsg3bjUmibAREoyMiYn-8YBsI5FvSE7-q0TB0N7iK5_PrgWRArP4M0mH6tHbfJBRYsxrMmZVrPhg3hMDEm1iIt84YvRiP6eDYxgtdMhHijBsNPdbNfi8QqpkA/s16000/EBAA2D21-A0FE-441D-A0D1-C13CFDEF6634.PNG" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p> <br /></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113438976025516456.post-64450010318694167062021-05-21T15:35:00.001-07:002021-05-21T15:44:49.354-07:00What to do when marriage gets hard! <p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPGrAHlnp7abmGWMGfdNlSJdtp4bBuk3zAUaxTc_rmIrkQQgKFwS7oUkX1eu6X-M-CdyILRcaHLx6HhQT3JgtDX9QnFR3oht6D_yEzqJp0mq9aHJgl9yflFMAgGlwpq7W2TFS5nNAPST4/s1920/9D9A9052.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1280" data-original-width="1920" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPGrAHlnp7abmGWMGfdNlSJdtp4bBuk3zAUaxTc_rmIrkQQgKFwS7oUkX1eu6X-M-CdyILRcaHLx6HhQT3JgtDX9QnFR3oht6D_yEzqJp0mq9aHJgl9yflFMAgGlwpq7W2TFS5nNAPST4/s16000/9D9A9052.JPG" /></a></div><span style="font-size: small;">We recently celebrated our 13 year wedding anniversary on a mountaintop. It was just the two of us, our hiking boots, water, snacks, camera gear and a change of clothing for when we made it to the top. Dirty Harry's trail is less than an hour away from Seattle and has a super gorgeous view at the top! I highly recommend the hike on a sunny day as a date with your significant other. </span><p></p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: small;">In many ways this hike represented our journey as a couple! Marriage has its ebbs and flows. While we were walking up the mountain we could see glimpses of beauty through the trees but knew that we had to keep walking in order to get to the top where the view was even grander. Many people don't believe me when I say that we've had rough patches in our marriage because we really protect our love. However, we are real people, chasing big dreams and raising 4 other humans. Trust me! We've had hard times! Here's what has helped;</span></p><p><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-size: small;"><b>1. Choose to like your spouse</b> - <span>I often hear people say "I love my spouse but I don't like them". This is such a damaging statement. Often times our marriage is hard because our spouse can tell that we don't like them. When you like someone your arms are open for an embrace when you
see them, you smile from ear to ear and talk on and on about what
excites you and ask how they are doing. You also take the time to listen to what they have to say and admire the little things about them. After all...we would want this for ourselves also. Even if you don’t feel it at the
moment remind yourself to like your spouse daily. A simple rub on the head, loving gaze or statement of affirmation can go a long way! <br /></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: small;"><span> </span><b> </b></span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b> </b><span><b>2. Basic needs matter!</b> Food, rest, exercise, sunshine, vitamins etc. matter! A lack of certain vitamins and
minerals can cause irritability and poor communication. Be
sure to take good care of your health and encourage your spouse to do the same. Being deficient in iron, B12 and vitamin D can all cause irritability. Also unchecked mental health disorders can also negatively impact your marriage. Pay attention to
you and your spouse's work stressors also. It’s hard not to bring them home. Try your best to be
mindful of the fact that your spouse might be going through a stressful
time and schedule anti-stress activities. </span></span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 20.3px;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span></span><br /></span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span><b>3. Get away without the kids.</b> This is hard for me y'all! I'm a helicopter parent to the T! I take the safety of my kids as my responsibility and it's hard for me to trust someone else with that -- especially for an extended period of time! Hubby and I love adventuring with the boys but can I tell you that on our recent hiking </span><span>🥾</span><span> trip together we felt like teenagers again! We had no distractions and could just focus on each other! We plan on making hiking our new thing! <br /></span></span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 20.3px;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span></span><br /></span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span>4. I've said this before but I'll say it again! <b>Involve
each other in your dreams. </b>When you’ve been married for awhile a drift
can occur. In order to not grow apart be sure to involve each other in
your dreams and celebrate small wins! We recently set a goal
of 5k followers on my Instagram profile and said that if I achieved it the family would go out to eat at our favorite restaurant. Can I say that we are so
happy that we made it!! This helped us to communicate more and to be
active in making the dream a reality. It's all hands on deck. If hubby has a goal I also chip in to support! I've always kept my goals to myself -- because I'm a firstborn and like to lead when it comes to my passions but life is so much better as a team! <br /></span></span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 20.3px;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span></span><br /></span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span><b>5. Find
a good counselor. </b>This is another tip that I've mentioned before but it's so crucial! I'm not ashamed to say that we've seen a marriage counselor! In fact we've seen two! They are a couple that we love so much! We highly recommend <a href="https://www.marriagemenders.org/services">themarriagemenders</a>! They are the best because they are a couple that have gone through a lot but are still standing strong! There are some bumps in the road of marriage that you
just might need help overcoming. Just like you might call up a plumber for a leak or a roofer to fix your roof -- call the professionals when there are things that you need help with in your marriage. </span></span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 20.3px;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span></span><br /></span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span><b>6. Voice
your expectations.</b> I recently heard Devon Franklin say that we are disappointed in marriage because we set expectations on a
person without voicing them. When they do not meet our silent
expectations we then get sad, disappointed or mad. For instance, as someone with the love language
of words of affirmation I expect that when I clean, cook or do any other task that my spouse will show appreciation by vocalizing it. He might give me a hug and smile or clean up the kitchen to show his appreciation but because physical touch and acts of service isn't my love language that gesture usually goes over my head. I had to actually voice my expectation. If it's your expectation is that your spouse changes diapers, wakes up to feed the baby also or help with cleaning don't just wait to see if they do it--that's shady LOL, voice your expectations kindly! <br /></span></span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 20.3px;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span></span><br /></span></p><span style="font-size: small;"><span></span></span><p><span style="font-size: small;"><b>7. Pray together</b> - The foundation of our marriage is God! Period! We wouldn't have found each other without Him and we owe all that we are to Him. We can totally tell the difference in our relationship when we do not pray together. We try to pray at least once during the day together and also keep our personal devotion time solid. No hardship would be greater than you if you both submit your hearts to the Lord! Oh, if you are at a point where do don't feel like praying with your spouse--because that can happen, ask someone that truly care about you to pray for you. You don't have to give all the details but prayers truly help! </span><br /></p><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgoN3-YrXrKcjTnET3haKck3UVxUnwcBUHewb7Bq-47slx7Tg5E8CbY3KH8yMQQwgGqJdX0jPK8ZFcZ574V3xmdwZ0fCMWU6eaQcd8CVis3mlggHA3h-GUNS_-ETXCjgGgk3CrVPgFxPs4/s1920/9D9A9039.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1280" data-original-width="1920" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgoN3-YrXrKcjTnET3haKck3UVxUnwcBUHewb7Bq-47slx7Tg5E8CbY3KH8yMQQwgGqJdX0jPK8ZFcZ574V3xmdwZ0fCMWU6eaQcd8CVis3mlggHA3h-GUNS_-ETXCjgGgk3CrVPgFxPs4/s16000/9D9A9039.JPG" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJL9nhjyLYa4T0-T8lxNE4eqnstNCi094LpgmTiolQhuL4DpoNsX0dr-Fhb4u0_ffdEGoyLxc-q5Z1cYieWBYnRKMuUYhlz3vXADWLLlUUnydGPF-tDTbIeOAR835LEBmYG1WqUthbzqk/s1920/9D9A9026.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1280" data-original-width="1920" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJL9nhjyLYa4T0-T8lxNE4eqnstNCi094LpgmTiolQhuL4DpoNsX0dr-Fhb4u0_ffdEGoyLxc-q5Z1cYieWBYnRKMuUYhlz3vXADWLLlUUnydGPF-tDTbIeOAR835LEBmYG1WqUthbzqk/s16000/9D9A9026.JPG" /></a></div><p></p><p> </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjbQINepn5n8pq98jCWrx8yC3qtNSM7GXG0a699HLg_LZEN8wPEzHW4IqYxuGg1E450cl_Y20So_re6kKQdGUS_G5tJZUQfcZCNjcQhqDGMUl1VLUjjGiGFnucxHytLq34Z4D2_jWst9wU/s1102/7277A202-9CA5-492A-9B85-7A46F911DBB2.PNG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1102" data-original-width="735" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjbQINepn5n8pq98jCWrx8yC3qtNSM7GXG0a699HLg_LZEN8wPEzHW4IqYxuGg1E450cl_Y20So_re6kKQdGUS_G5tJZUQfcZCNjcQhqDGMUl1VLUjjGiGFnucxHytLq34Z4D2_jWst9wU/s16000/7277A202-9CA5-492A-9B85-7A46F911DBB2.PNG" /></a></div><br /> <p></p><p>Disclaimer: This post is in no way meant to be an aid to someone that's being physically, emotionally, spiritually, psychologically or financially abused. Marriage should be a garden where you can grow fully and beautifully. Seek help if you're with someone that's abusing you. The biggest help that you can receive to start is to educate yourself on the forms of abuse, work on daily affirmations and find a tribe that can support you. One love! <br /></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113438976025516456.post-80773433110686691382021-05-03T01:00:00.001-07:002021-05-03T01:00:46.032-07:00How to show your mom love on Mother's Day <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4z9zqESAUiMQa79sPSuSp3xpgxlvQ9xMN4nr36oC7gjdi6_Ueq9Kbi3iqyWjT7VdkdhAYfFVkmaMKFhdxofGwxXVEJGQzjWkq03rc_Dz0p3BSlDsGlyhSd6_mdOTfPVeudZrKj6dgly8/s2048/8P1A0599.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4z9zqESAUiMQa79sPSuSp3xpgxlvQ9xMN4nr36oC7gjdi6_Ueq9Kbi3iqyWjT7VdkdhAYfFVkmaMKFhdxofGwxXVEJGQzjWkq03rc_Dz0p3BSlDsGlyhSd6_mdOTfPVeudZrKj6dgly8/s16000/8P1A0599.JPG" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">Mother's Day is fast approaching and you might be wondering what to get for your mom to show her love this year. Have no fear! Even if you've procrastinated here are some ways that you can show your mom that you love her! </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p><b>Have a virtual brunch date</b> - Spending quality time with your mom is sure to bring joy to her heart! She might not be keen on the idea of eating out as a result of the pandemic but that doesn't mean that you can't order brunch for you to enjoy with her! Even if you are in seperate locations you can order food for the both of you and video conference while enjoying your special meal together. </p><p><b><br /></b></p><p><b>Gift her a massage - </b> Giving your mom the gift of relaxation is such a wonderful gesture of love! There is no doubt that this pandemic has stressed every mom out! A calm massage might be just what your mom needs to feel loved and relaxed this Mother's Day! </p><p><b><br /></b></p><p><b>Clean up for her</b> - Cleaning for your mom is the ultimate show of love for moms who enjoy kind acts of service. You can help her organize a space, wash the dishes, clean up around the yard or dust. If you live far away then gift her a cleaning service. This will allow her to put her feet up and enjoy a clean home! Trust me, she'd be sure to remember it! </p><p><b><br /></b></p><p><b>Send her a physical postcard! </b>- This year I'm using the <b><a href="https://applink.mypostcardapp.com/ruQ1aSkxrfb ">MyPostcard </a></b>app to send physical postcards to all the amazing moms in my life! MyPostcard is so great because you can upload personal photos from your mobile phone or social media and create a personalized postcard with a Mother's Day message to her. The great thing is that they mail the postcard for you straight from the app! You don't even have to go to the post office! They have lovely Mother's Day templates to choose from and the cost is as low as $2.99 per card! Send your mom some happy mail! They ship worldwide! </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgU_xGkbBDO32wc7y5c2tG2yk1EC13bqG1phrVXXoAfRPqbNK34dVYjAD9BmaimbcStPBsCTUvlQAU7rytzRij7F08maaqQE4VMQlbtIar9zzpxC3zvZmKX_oAbqTdk-XIzbj3H5wS3frs/s2048/7O8A7476.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgU_xGkbBDO32wc7y5c2tG2yk1EC13bqG1phrVXXoAfRPqbNK34dVYjAD9BmaimbcStPBsCTUvlQAU7rytzRij7F08maaqQE4VMQlbtIar9zzpxC3zvZmKX_oAbqTdk-XIzbj3H5wS3frs/s16000/7O8A7476.JPG" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhkM6fMZWDU38vEBKeSDc9Xk4bxtM8TWeQKbD-qmvR3p2KnEw7TysYcuVCctO6kXl2yhq6yPZpjYdk4OZ0pP_g6PEyxeSXbM6vz0F8rO-be4QmyWDIGcG-wL8nVb628gjzQeT4VJPBxco/s2048/7O8A7543.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhkM6fMZWDU38vEBKeSDc9Xk4bxtM8TWeQKbD-qmvR3p2KnEw7TysYcuVCctO6kXl2yhq6yPZpjYdk4OZ0pP_g6PEyxeSXbM6vz0F8rO-be4QmyWDIGcG-wL8nVb628gjzQeT4VJPBxco/s16000/7O8A7543.JPG" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br /><p><br /></p><p><b>Buy her a plant</b> - Many opt for buying flowers for their mom on Mother's Day but although cut flowers are lovely they do not last forever. An indoor plant is a beautiful way to show love to your mom because she'd have it as a reminder. Each time that she sees it she'll be sure to remember you! Some great options for house plants are Peace Lily, Philodendron, Pothos, Chinese Money Plant and Live Calathea. </p><p><b>Send her a cute video</b> - Moms love personal videos! You can use iMovie or a video editor app to create a video of you and your siblings sharing a Mother's Day greeting to your mom. Add some music and a slideshow of photos and voila! She'd feel so loved! </p><p><b><br /></b></p><p><b>Simply say it!</b> - Nothing warms the heart of a mother more than hearing "I love you mom!" No matter how old you get she will never grow tired of hearing it. Those words pierces straight to her heart! If you want to really make her heart sing then, add a list of things that you are thankful to her for. For instance, "I love you mom, thank you for always being someone I can call on" or "I love you mom, thank you for babysitting for me! You're a great grandma." </p><p><br /></p><p>Happy Mother's Day and I hope that you remember to show love to your mom this year! </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiscg6r762BcPZuehyphenhyphenA3w8LvKydT045yt9tfn3ci-jIXZ13_jehnVDNh8rWtbbtwAY3AZr5BqQ7Yx5eBJhoOkUAdYmi0VHu0ldEAXjdbMkObOwGfB70IXQfI1wSVtNOxPOjnV1lZqdXs7A/s2048/7O8A7131+2.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiscg6r762BcPZuehyphenhyphenA3w8LvKydT045yt9tfn3ci-jIXZ13_jehnVDNh8rWtbbtwAY3AZr5BqQ7Yx5eBJhoOkUAdYmi0VHu0ldEAXjdbMkObOwGfB70IXQfI1wSVtNOxPOjnV1lZqdXs7A/s16000/7O8A7131+2.JPG" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113438976025516456.post-88918711456416556462020-12-15T10:44:00.003-08:002020-12-15T18:22:45.808-08:007 THINGS WE DID TO IMPROVE OUR MARRIAGE DURING A PANDEMIC <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMy2EtVyzx7oMdJq8N3FaAqnOFbz6nl0ZENdmXLqXbnKxVBGRyWi0YKB8Qhy8owfm4SHCojgJdJAkR7gUnY2fr_4pVNHhGF5ULroeJSCu607UKl7PXPrLptVWt1lHuOBtYzyNcGHgRme4/s2048/554A0900.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1569" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMy2EtVyzx7oMdJq8N3FaAqnOFbz6nl0ZENdmXLqXbnKxVBGRyWi0YKB8Qhy8owfm4SHCojgJdJAkR7gUnY2fr_4pVNHhGF5ULroeJSCu607UKl7PXPrLptVWt1lHuOBtYzyNcGHgRme4/s16000/554A0900.jpg" /></a></div><br /><p>Marriage is amazing! Now marriage during the stressors of 2020 is a whole other beast! LOL! But seriously though. Between the stress of school opening uncertainty, a whole pandemic, financial strain, being quarantined together for almost a year, working with kids at home etc. -- there is enough to rock your marriage boat. Do not be alarmed if your marriage has hit what seems like a rough patch. You are carrying a lot right now and know that you're not alone. Here are some things that we did that helped our marriage in 2020! </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p><b> 1. We started marriage counseling</b> - Yes we sure did! Our marriage is the most important thing to us outside of God and we decided to make sure we continued to invest in it. We are 2 different people, raised in 2 different countries with completely different ideas on many things. I'm an extrovert, he's an introvert, I'm a spender and giver and he's a saver, I'm a multitask-er and big picture thinker and he's the one that actually gets the plan in motion. Yup! God decided that we were the perfect pair!! My negatives are balanced perfectly with his positives and vice versa. However, we needed help with fully understanding and celebrating each other's differences. Those differences are going to be highlighted more than ever during this time! We love our counselors! They are a Christian couple that have no problems sharing the things that they've overcome and really help us to communicate better, identify our triggers and learn to celebrate each others differences. Check them out <a href="https://www.marriagemenders.org/services">here</a>! </p><p><br /></p><p><b>2. We continued to dream together</b> - 2020 has tried to crush many of our dreams. However, we have decided to continue to make plans for the future. We try to make some time to take our eyes off of the present difficulties of 2020 and think about where we'd like to live in the future, what we hope to accomplish for our kids, future businesses we'd like to start and places we'd like to visit. Dreaming helps to build common goals and takes our minds off of the present. <br /></p><p><b> </b></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj05SRdiSrEm4BomdWYJLiIvqVWH-xcmFHbXiqITabK1BqKenAPxus3iEMIEmTvvSALw-zZ0XO5pcajeNQsYzF27LcUyMJPXYnNoVywcVc4xR2931cEMEPwnOmba430ZE0f-obTK2pzF3o/s2048/554A0913.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj05SRdiSrEm4BomdWYJLiIvqVWH-xcmFHbXiqITabK1BqKenAPxus3iEMIEmTvvSALw-zZ0XO5pcajeNQsYzF27LcUyMJPXYnNoVywcVc4xR2931cEMEPwnOmba430ZE0f-obTK2pzF3o/s16000/554A0913.JPG" /></a></div><b> </b><p></p><p><b>3. We Improved Our Communication </b>- Counseling has helped us to be able to communicate much better. One thing that we did not know was that being triggered got in the way of proper communication. Once we realized that there were real traumas behind our triggers and it had nothing to do with each other we started to have more compassion. We created a code word for when we're triggered and we now respond with love and compassion. We both also use more feeling words to express ourselves. Active listening has also helped. </p><p><br /></p><p><b>4. We helped each other with work </b>- We joke that we are coworkers now. On top of homeschooling our children we both work. My hubby works full time and I quit my full time job during the pandemic (because it was entirely too much with 4 kids at home) and started working part time in addition to blogging. We're blessed to be able to work from home but it's not easy with 4 young people to simultaneously care for. At the beginning of the work/school day we share our schedule and goals with each other. If he has a meeting I try to have the kids occupied and if I need help with a project he's fully supportive. We see each other as partners in work, life and love. </p><p><b> </b></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnomhA7PhwB5uEE6YQaeRcsCYqK3lRSGE-t7-6UYc5XvnyhfEi72Qyi4CbU-Kskk6swdoSK6QGrRJgTR2eWoraalZq9ndwTmjmH1PXB7-ByAOod9rH5fPNrY9aiSjjWV8my1PCfzYOWwg/s2048/554A0917.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnomhA7PhwB5uEE6YQaeRcsCYqK3lRSGE-t7-6UYc5XvnyhfEi72Qyi4CbU-Kskk6swdoSK6QGrRJgTR2eWoraalZq9ndwTmjmH1PXB7-ByAOod9rH5fPNrY9aiSjjWV8my1PCfzYOWwg/s16000/554A0917.JPG" /></a></div><p><b>5. Housework is fully shared</b> <b>now </b>- As a woman from the Caribbean I grew up with a traditional sense of marriage. Well...let me clarify. It's ingrained in me that the woman takes care of the home..however, never have I ever thought about not making money. It brings me a strong sense of fulfillment knowing that I contribute financially. That said, I also fully held that the woman was responsible for keeping the home tidy. This most definitely was not sustainable. I approached burnout quickly. As I'm writing this blog post I can hear the dishwasher going and my husband sweeping the floor. This allows me to spend time blogging and prepare for teaching the boys today. We've always kind of shared housework but for the most part I bore the guilt when things got out of control. These days my hubby fully holds the same level of responsibility at heart that I do for the upkeep of our home. It just kind of clicked one day. This pandemic has helped us to be a team in every sense of the word...because we had to! <br /></p><p>The kids also help more now. We do 5 minute cleanups in each room and with 6 people in the home that results in about 30 minutes of cleanup in just 5 minutes! We love this cleanup <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-y2Ut6aFwac">song</a>. </p><p> </p><p><b>6. We started talking more about finances </b>- God has been good to us and we are glad that our finances hasn't sifted drastically. I did go from a full time to part time salary but between cooking meals at home and saving on clothing, childcare etc. we are balancing things out. Can I just say that I dislike budget conversations. My hubby is a very thorough conscientious guy and I'm more on the spontaneous side. To make our budget meetings work we keep them short. To continue to feed the dreamer in me we always think about things that we can save up for and to feed the planner in him we try to give every dollar a purpose--budgeting spending for me...because you're girl has to spend! LOL. <br /></p><p></p><p><b> </b></p><p><b>7. Spend time alone together</b> - It's hard to find time to spend alone with 4 kiddos. However, we try our best to make that a priority. We've largely been quarantining so it's been safe to take them over to grandma and grandpa's house. This offers us some much needed relief and time to dedicate to each other. We also try to put the boys in the bed early and just watch a show together. Homeschooling has also helped us to find more time to be together. When the boys were in hybrid school it was rough trying to catch them up with homework and understand the requirements of each teacher. Now that we are homeschooling our evenings are ours again! The boys play and we chat, cook, or work on projects together...it's a totally more natural flow. No more evenings hijacked by hours of endless homework.<br /></p><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3eZRryGzugj_1ipyh3pQWm2zCx32OJmSbXO-ut8hjCt1ny5IJ7TPWMk2Bzs2jOu52GTo3Wz6FVBOLVRNbGgATv2dqE1wt-w5XVudgI3OmD8_mWVNT4A1r1rkIG94IyRIcnDb-wKr76Vg/s2048/Facetune_09-12-2020-02-08-47.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3eZRryGzugj_1ipyh3pQWm2zCx32OJmSbXO-ut8hjCt1ny5IJ7TPWMk2Bzs2jOu52GTo3Wz6FVBOLVRNbGgATv2dqE1wt-w5XVudgI3OmD8_mWVNT4A1r1rkIG94IyRIcnDb-wKr76Vg/s16000/Facetune_09-12-2020-02-08-47.JPG" /></a></div><p></p><p>We hope that these tips help you. If you have any marriage questions please feel free to reach out to me on social media. </p><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWXgPEKWtqB9T75kRYNQcISXbjgDGX7S333Z5cVTx4T9weWivt4_SylRzQrTe8f62Os_wiXU2o9CmUqHX0u4NuiGpApUAsudEKJUqUXMEACYPqROZgUjjt8pYaKpMwYHhKni8ftMGx-rY/s1997/IMG_9959.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1997" data-original-width="1125" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWXgPEKWtqB9T75kRYNQcISXbjgDGX7S333Z5cVTx4T9weWivt4_SylRzQrTe8f62Os_wiXU2o9CmUqHX0u4NuiGpApUAsudEKJUqUXMEACYPqROZgUjjt8pYaKpMwYHhKni8ftMGx-rY/s16000/IMG_9959.jpg" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113438976025516456.post-80852939314794434762020-12-08T23:12:00.004-08:002020-12-08T23:13:55.902-08:003 MUST SEE SIGHTS AT GRAND TETON NATIONAL PARK<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjU7KbmuSChyWdiB8pSso3j_HlI-Qy53JJz8oKyXW_vRTz4T9oae_8NNAo-mZ2Xc55sKAiNA1Zpy69EIFNq6B1hmFPnoZuI9O7T_ucQtxg5EmlnuMfTEeH-7tsHLCy-fffcxlzvKBg8ZoY/s2048/9D9A0609.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjU7KbmuSChyWdiB8pSso3j_HlI-Qy53JJz8oKyXW_vRTz4T9oae_8NNAo-mZ2Xc55sKAiNA1Zpy69EIFNq6B1hmFPnoZuI9O7T_ucQtxg5EmlnuMfTEeH-7tsHLCy-fffcxlzvKBg8ZoY/s16000/9D9A0609.JPG" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p>So far we've visited 5 National Parks and Grand Teton is my personal favorite!!! OMG! This park is stunning. Just south of Yellowstone you drive into another world of magical beauty. However, unlike most other National Parks we've visited we could release the hands of our children and let them really explore. Here are our must see sights! </p><p><br /></p><p>1. JENNY LAKE - Jenny Lake has to be the single most astonishing place I've ever been to! As we walked the pathway from the parking lot to the lake I was joking with the boys and hubby... until I saw the view! The feelings of both majesty and absolute tranquility on the warm late summer evening hit me! I didn't know how to feel! She's a scene straight out of a movie! We canceled our plans for the next day and spent the entire day at the lake. The boys tried to catch fish, swam in the warm water and daddy and I pulled up a chair to relax. We highly recommend getting there first thing in the morning! RV parking is limited. We packed the kids in the vehicle, hitched the trailer and got there before showering or having breakfast. We served up a tasty breakfast to the kids on site that morning! I'd go back to Grand Teton just to visit Jenny Lake! The park also has a boat tour of the lake. </p><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUChyeQulVSkf8m5oCn6p8Pe7KKHDWScBG6Ya0PkUC6G2RiwExrh7TAkgUWdfFaNkOuYyXTHQfMWUCpybsSnvbEVECsvqKcSdS3-rZ3jII8a52sKHJrz8u3yfzk2-o3rYhv_67XsZTG2Y/s2048/9D9A9817.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUChyeQulVSkf8m5oCn6p8Pe7KKHDWScBG6Ya0PkUC6G2RiwExrh7TAkgUWdfFaNkOuYyXTHQfMWUCpybsSnvbEVECsvqKcSdS3-rZ3jII8a52sKHJrz8u3yfzk2-o3rYhv_67XsZTG2Y/s16000/9D9A9817.JPG" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhKhFqDBQ-0nFn3RhN6fvs0XIkqOvW6OY2nNb82_55YuX58781Kmv7vSLff0jowMq6hCr5bSFq-DLVz6MhG_M_bsFOqTBQ_8dFL7cWPUAPR86RqRY558-wAU42qDk17kHYEMStopP9mfZY/s2048/9D9A9868.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhKhFqDBQ-0nFn3RhN6fvs0XIkqOvW6OY2nNb82_55YuX58781Kmv7vSLff0jowMq6hCr5bSFq-DLVz6MhG_M_bsFOqTBQ_8dFL7cWPUAPR86RqRY558-wAU42qDk17kHYEMStopP9mfZY/s16000/9D9A9868.JPG" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrsBs-NDJz_m2u2U2YCU_7S_hezhxZBqJCOqhp-qaG4U_oyl1rsBHOp6Y4q8z1iTu3f5Zhy5i3ZXOzuSi6k769uIFViIv4Yulbg_rfrca7lu79NTeRDTY3jsUPTaujyJJzzODKlyXTWVQ/s2048/9D9A9879.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrsBs-NDJz_m2u2U2YCU_7S_hezhxZBqJCOqhp-qaG4U_oyl1rsBHOp6Y4q8z1iTu3f5Zhy5i3ZXOzuSi6k769uIFViIv4Yulbg_rfrca7lu79NTeRDTY3jsUPTaujyJJzzODKlyXTWVQ/s16000/9D9A9879.JPG" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div>2. MORAN JUNCTION - The best way to see everything at Grand Teton is to drive the 42 mile scenic drive. On the drive you'll come across Moran Junction. That's where the bison graze! We were the first car in line when the ranger stopped traffic so that bison could walk across the street. I often tell the kids that when we're in nature God sends special reminders of love for them as we are often lucky to see may amazing things on our trips! The bison herd is a spectacular site. Close to Moran Junction is also the Cunningham Cabin Historic Site. This little cabin has a small creek and the kids loved playing in the creek and observing the historic carpentry of the cabin. </div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDl_R0M2z779ni-bgl5okggwzbAjpva92WYIAFXXhzZpyPBmyg0XXPxS3K2d1Tm5I5QqWlW0LamrrwCNGPt6z-4C0Edxn00y4EOQgfZA1RcXx-dlZZY2BDtf9XkITuj857UX-dXorSsx4/s2048/9D9A8945.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDl_R0M2z779ni-bgl5okggwzbAjpva92WYIAFXXhzZpyPBmyg0XXPxS3K2d1Tm5I5QqWlW0LamrrwCNGPt6z-4C0Edxn00y4EOQgfZA1RcXx-dlZZY2BDtf9XkITuj857UX-dXorSsx4/s16000/9D9A8945.JPG" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTj9TxvKknF9PTR2HBuiySJXiIt6U8A7NtkBw8ebhvoqouYeOMUd1nSMojDqZk10KGezIcYMS3IUpGtACexYZWNZXoYM9GwhosynwDq9mtvqTo3FB0uNSSq5POMjZoXwon18NEVZoK15s/s2048/9D9A8962.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTj9TxvKknF9PTR2HBuiySJXiIt6U8A7NtkBw8ebhvoqouYeOMUd1nSMojDqZk10KGezIcYMS3IUpGtACexYZWNZXoYM9GwhosynwDq9mtvqTo3FB0uNSSq5POMjZoXwon18NEVZoK15s/s16000/9D9A8962.JPG" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwR3htmj43xhtOvqpJr-KLLQso7X73GZdXhgrZYH6wr54eyYAoNEK3I9rDcT8SKDKgLCWq90JdE4t0zuFxIR7tdPqGEQTHBR6DqljH4Wkb5iK8RY03K2G4n1rJzoR9tMFZRVuwHyQmsoE/s2048/9D9A9392.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwR3htmj43xhtOvqpJr-KLLQso7X73GZdXhgrZYH6wr54eyYAoNEK3I9rDcT8SKDKgLCWq90JdE4t0zuFxIR7tdPqGEQTHBR6DqljH4Wkb5iK8RY03K2G4n1rJzoR9tMFZRVuwHyQmsoE/s16000/9D9A9392.JPG" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeJMzjmJRX_MUI8lx7HbFzbbVFRgaYSaPxD9TiR5ryle31SuWtC2BrgJj8BRJa_tNoAFej81pyXDosQWXKiv-Q8uDGiLV0ENXr-8jdL9AyPa65Y0_NNtu3XCwnYIFItKp_AJcn4veF3Jg/s2048/9D9A9360.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeJMzjmJRX_MUI8lx7HbFzbbVFRgaYSaPxD9TiR5ryle31SuWtC2BrgJj8BRJa_tNoAFej81pyXDosQWXKiv-Q8uDGiLV0ENXr-8jdL9AyPa65Y0_NNtu3XCwnYIFItKp_AJcn4veF3Jg/s16000/9D9A9360.JPG" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">3. LOOKOUT POINTS - There are lookout as you drive around the park! You can pull over and gaze at the beautiful scenes. When we visited the smoke from the California wildfires made is difficult to see but we highly recommend pulling over to get some beautiful photos at Togwotee Overlook. You can see the Teton range close to the Climber's Ranch as well. </div><h2 style="background-color: white; border-bottom: none; box-sizing: border-box; color: #0f4d85; font-family: Roboto, sans-serif; font-size: 30px; font-weight: 500; line-height: 1.1; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 20px;"><br /></h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvxlyIwq9yyKTRE7OGqIHs84sU07eUEIFXfNia6BeTBdr-STUP91Ed4PP47QErJTjUWFabw3QlcVhyR9ZJXKgULDtAudS_x0RIDd5OvjG3wDKF9Jh4PmgAqfrfvYW2bnaGR2HBpLgXiOw/s2048/9D9A9502+2.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvxlyIwq9yyKTRE7OGqIHs84sU07eUEIFXfNia6BeTBdr-STUP91Ed4PP47QErJTjUWFabw3QlcVhyR9ZJXKgULDtAudS_x0RIDd5OvjG3wDKF9Jh4PmgAqfrfvYW2bnaGR2HBpLgXiOw/s16000/9D9A9502+2.JPG" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhygulQh9ImFFRtctbLacT2Zr2NwVTKmGsGHi8mADniwE1yuSvM8C59TB9fmnz4FLHNZ1NjsAb5HlgRfIcfDaz1lZWBHVN5rmuIFgjLXiySA5d54EGRw102kALwQFffOK-pz12fO0-YDjs/s2048/9D9A9555+2.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhygulQh9ImFFRtctbLacT2Zr2NwVTKmGsGHi8mADniwE1yuSvM8C59TB9fmnz4FLHNZ1NjsAb5HlgRfIcfDaz1lZWBHVN5rmuIFgjLXiySA5d54EGRw102kALwQFffOK-pz12fO0-YDjs/s16000/9D9A9555+2.JPG" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhvvA-mQqPRPoddwMnqkWCU2yYV7w3bvOiKEFYxO6sx-jqolo8HdaJwAHi39_LGhGtUTmUPSaG-9aAIV5tW5RnWBrJNtnFo5vCvWTe0EXAMps2WFhYwCiFudeHAK7G8sLyzlXhO4WXUJv8/s2048/9D9A9636+2.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhvvA-mQqPRPoddwMnqkWCU2yYV7w3bvOiKEFYxO6sx-jqolo8HdaJwAHi39_LGhGtUTmUPSaG-9aAIV5tW5RnWBrJNtnFo5vCvWTe0EXAMps2WFhYwCiFudeHAK7G8sLyzlXhO4WXUJv8/s16000/9D9A9636+2.JPG" /></a></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlUGv-q-FHpvafDC1OG_BcnTTgpGLAucla2vMlSJ6RHhhaofezn1E9Wio3V4kfCrXdqcZQNZcCnLSmo9ttIFmCVZBGWZP9yJKui2hu-lfzXTsSiu2_E81Dl3JFDaSXTr5ecfSeJxxN_48/s2048/9D9A9106.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1365" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlUGv-q-FHpvafDC1OG_BcnTTgpGLAucla2vMlSJ6RHhhaofezn1E9Wio3V4kfCrXdqcZQNZcCnLSmo9ttIFmCVZBGWZP9yJKui2hu-lfzXTsSiu2_E81Dl3JFDaSXTr5ecfSeJxxN_48/s16000/9D9A9106.JPG" /></a></div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">You can't visit Grant Teton without also visiting Yellowstone! Check out our post on Yellowstone <a href="http://www.thegoandgrowfamily.com/2020/12/3-must-see-sites-at-yellowstone.html">here</a>! </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBas8yoacSJ2LMdC0g-Q2kQs0MVYeIRjtj9_onyebQFRxsFWhXB2kDE7ngAtWCM9DSLCn_oXBws68fWuI9c5k8Xcy1l4QHv-2DRwKjRxAqfGT-a6is6seRaV8Mz6vP8aUH1ug7wjA1SQ8/s1102/779C08B9-4A50-4780-AF82-48C8A0CA2346.PNG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1102" data-original-width="735" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBas8yoacSJ2LMdC0g-Q2kQs0MVYeIRjtj9_onyebQFRxsFWhXB2kDE7ngAtWCM9DSLCn_oXBws68fWuI9c5k8Xcy1l4QHv-2DRwKjRxAqfGT-a6is6seRaV8Mz6vP8aUH1ug7wjA1SQ8/s16000/779C08B9-4A50-4780-AF82-48C8A0CA2346.PNG" /></a></div><br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113438976025516456.post-1914578110727503642020-12-08T21:17:00.003-08:002020-12-08T21:22:34.835-08:003 MUST SEE SIGHTS AT YELLOWSTONE NATIONAL PARK <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCdSQUsvCEqxSBjJIDQQ05o0wPn4i5moGb7pLSUtGquY-LsCgviSvtVevEEQJ1URVNeqTnr8zaD8HByBN_KW-1bVeFLkF0zdWNSgvWqZjZd2GaCank2flH_l7bjRH7h1oGYYLDxLJK2t4/" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCdSQUsvCEqxSBjJIDQQ05o0wPn4i5moGb7pLSUtGquY-LsCgviSvtVevEEQJ1URVNeqTnr8zaD8HByBN_KW-1bVeFLkF0zdWNSgvWqZjZd2GaCank2flH_l7bjRH7h1oGYYLDxLJK2t4/s16000/9D9A1220.JPG" /></a></div></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="text-align: left;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="text-align: left;">It's almost winter but it's a perfect time to plan your trip to Yellowstone National Park next year! We went at the end of August 2020 and were totally safe although we traveled during a pandemic. When visiting we recommend staying close to the west entrance! That's where most of the cool sites are. Yellowstone is amazing!! There is so much to see! We recommend going in May or early September to beat the crowds! The park has a lodge and also amazing camping/RVing sites. We rented an RV for the trip and stayed at the Yellowstone West KOA. When traveling in a pandemic we truly recommend an RV as it's a hotel on wheels! Here are three sights to visit when you visit Yellowstone;</span></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="text-align: left;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="text-align: left;">1. MIDWAY GEYSER BASIN - The Midway Geyser basin is where you'd find the beautiful rainbow colored Grand Prismatic Basin. We went in the evening so the there was a lot of steam and we couldn't quite see it in all of it's glory. We hear that the best time to see it is on a sunny day at noon. We didn't want to meet up with the crowds at that time but the sight might be totally worth it! There is also the Turquoise and Oval Pools at that same area. As you enter you'll see the magical flow from the Excelsior Basin. Boiling hot water runs into a cool river and the water temperature is divine! We couldn't bathe in the river at the time that we visited though. It's also close to our next must see site! Old Faithful!! </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="text-align: left;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpHBCrcHMCiulUpwUTvZzeGsy49ZIdOAccxMZAq_pqyspEvK7SGuxpFXy2pXspoGaGel3cn7WPNUr6oWA8p8S-0IPo3IdyjD22yfAaQnbQ0zfeT03q-yjsRG5G8a1MWgBob86rNPs_NRQ/" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpHBCrcHMCiulUpwUTvZzeGsy49ZIdOAccxMZAq_pqyspEvK7SGuxpFXy2pXspoGaGel3cn7WPNUr6oWA8p8S-0IPo3IdyjD22yfAaQnbQ0zfeT03q-yjsRG5G8a1MWgBob86rNPs_NRQ/s16000/9D9A8218.JPG" /></a></div><span style="text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjn8qfM-2tNbK__YviPva0wMWElpkFi8JNgAzoz0qLNxO3qmsu9hCDhXAdG44wC9_ihRxnv9bBqCPTacLYLJwD9wTkmPMUnKhXBMDd0-2oZh7xXgVYqcawR8oSzmI-3SQorBI3K2BfGWek/" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" height="1" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjn8qfM-2tNbK__YviPva0wMWElpkFi8JNgAzoz0qLNxO3qmsu9hCDhXAdG44wC9_ihRxnv9bBqCPTacLYLJwD9wTkmPMUnKhXBMDd0-2oZh7xXgVYqcawR8oSzmI-3SQorBI3K2BfGWek/" width="1" /></a></div><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div style="text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEglz6OZbOXPGO69f3kr7rP61caBfK9kMuybGVviuW_V17drEG18Y6vdLK5vmhcpmRC24sJXO9TXwVhQ74mqVu5iakplzkO8xd98IvNXpXzORJ6SYqtXRpLa4HZra3mUedmkwj3cUe0x_HU/" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEglz6OZbOXPGO69f3kr7rP61caBfK9kMuybGVviuW_V17drEG18Y6vdLK5vmhcpmRC24sJXO9TXwVhQ74mqVu5iakplzkO8xd98IvNXpXzORJ6SYqtXRpLa4HZra3mUedmkwj3cUe0x_HU/s16000/9D9A8245.JPG" /></a></div><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPJb5sP4VcMwLUtatHK8nSFwEiT9CIXY0vdDsO7bAB0lO2KYGSikHxzWIiwPRzfF6vfgZsM8-9e6TciBfNxez-xymG5DAj4HF84hRqTHDL36fj_ef64sDLGFx2YVDel00ckZtsQh3zwUE/" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: center;"><img alt="" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPJb5sP4VcMwLUtatHK8nSFwEiT9CIXY0vdDsO7bAB0lO2KYGSikHxzWIiwPRzfF6vfgZsM8-9e6TciBfNxez-xymG5DAj4HF84hRqTHDL36fj_ef64sDLGFx2YVDel00ckZtsQh3zwUE/s16000/9D9A8193.JPG" /></a></div><span style="text-align: left;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="text-align: left;">2. OLD FAITHFUL - Old faithful was a grand sight to see! It erupts up to 180 feet in the air and is very </span>predictable -- hence it's name. It erupts at least 20 times per day and the park is very good and predicting when it is set to erupt. There is seating available in a circle around the Geyser so viewing is awesome! The boys were impatient while waiting but absolutely in awe when it erupted! An absolute must see! </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAjXgbHX1XqzDGTZ9rOsc_fAgu2EdLvPddeHC1zV8gTpuFmQAVN1WG2JNpSirqWnxMWZtTXdZXCf9yXYqRyxRisCYLx1HgYMSHShu827pMSLakK22WxqAta5j7k6G7p5iVrKkJ36TpMGE/" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAjXgbHX1XqzDGTZ9rOsc_fAgu2EdLvPddeHC1zV8gTpuFmQAVN1WG2JNpSirqWnxMWZtTXdZXCf9yXYqRyxRisCYLx1HgYMSHShu827pMSLakK22WxqAta5j7k6G7p5iVrKkJ36TpMGE/s16000/IMG_5324+2.JPG" /></a></div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhT21OrovgtDPD3wlJlBXYySTdBbQkXVMvHv5kGJEqbpnBVyW9CP3ohUYw5_owTX-FE3IMoPIOfH18FR0NeqBIvpEXqYTmuIg2PNxABcw5X_ftT4kSw246jUCUYRjojrClVxJz5-4Hk4og/" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="1975" data-original-width="1125" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhT21OrovgtDPD3wlJlBXYySTdBbQkXVMvHv5kGJEqbpnBVyW9CP3ohUYw5_owTX-FE3IMoPIOfH18FR0NeqBIvpEXqYTmuIg2PNxABcw5X_ftT4kSw246jUCUYRjojrClVxJz5-4Hk4og/s16000/IMG_9628.jpg" /></a></div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">3. GRAND CANYON OF THE YELLOWSTONE - We loved the views at Grand Canyon of the Yellowstone. We loved that there were hiking trails around so the boys could walk and get the wiggles out instead of standing still and watching. The canyon drops to unveil a beautiful waterfall and river. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZhyphenhypheno0ebetAXqT1MaEfGoCsbAzeTL9gETGUxY-L1m3A_T6CZd5O7RIGovpqmhLWBHJhM7ZqSBaLi4ZawER3-2GTPDmLf6OR18eMJ50MYd-LfsUakYtiNY6bvSM98ewHvIcVqRb4vrsEag/" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZhyphenhypheno0ebetAXqT1MaEfGoCsbAzeTL9gETGUxY-L1m3A_T6CZd5O7RIGovpqmhLWBHJhM7ZqSBaLi4ZawER3-2GTPDmLf6OR18eMJ50MYd-LfsUakYtiNY6bvSM98ewHvIcVqRb4vrsEag/s16000/9D9A1194.JPG" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8awIH3ZwIrH79rSdM8yr0vwninlFVBnLL0Vrznx6yx0DLtex18N4AC_rMlQKM1LxpWeRMLX1QqBGTAKM12NZjyCa_57m2cs5kzgKLcN7cQ66r_qxUYlmvu0gmEAYv61kKRPa0Cc8Xpxo/" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8awIH3ZwIrH79rSdM8yr0vwninlFVBnLL0Vrznx6yx0DLtex18N4AC_rMlQKM1LxpWeRMLX1QqBGTAKM12NZjyCa_57m2cs5kzgKLcN7cQ66r_qxUYlmvu0gmEAYv61kKRPa0Cc8Xpxo/s16000/Facetune_25-08-2020-12-03-17.JPG" /></a></div><br />Yellowstone is just grand! We highly recommend it! One week for a holiday is good to see everything. It's close to Grand Teton National Park -- you literally drive from one park straight into another. A week is enough to enjoy them both! Check out our post on "3 Must See Sites at Grant Teton" as well! </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeF3Isx1za1LAQp6Xj9UB7G25uDb5ZQ5sjW-1sQqBOxeJSMNtHLJfCbU3KGjfp1hR6D4odHzOyvGJ7V9tf3_4jDVZXm5NPG6IHB_P-hSC9PbpobEregkd_FDZoJPQAHlS5CiiQUGJpN2A/s1102/FD96C2CD-CA2A-4C35-A58C-9B5634C88790.PNG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1102" data-original-width="735" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeF3Isx1za1LAQp6Xj9UB7G25uDb5ZQ5sjW-1sQqBOxeJSMNtHLJfCbU3KGjfp1hR6D4odHzOyvGJ7V9tf3_4jDVZXm5NPG6IHB_P-hSC9PbpobEregkd_FDZoJPQAHlS5CiiQUGJpN2A/s16000/FD96C2CD-CA2A-4C35-A58C-9B5634C88790.PNG" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113438976025516456.post-5549621096577582472020-06-14T00:49:00.001-07:002020-06-14T01:08:46.083-07:00How to raise anti-racist kids <div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhggP81Mju-AdK0octOfjhHdXRkCL7SGP68ed9EApmW4oJ7mnxLRudrRpVOwibm_R3SnZVZN3deGIqqC_nbwOUy7oK_jKq-G001PrrdbnBqDQudUDVRCSZ2KWt2lLVycfQWlFh1WsGjpD8/s1102/DB5E103B-69CE-43CD-B8F8-EF35DE0513BF.PNG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1102" data-original-width="735" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhggP81Mju-AdK0octOfjhHdXRkCL7SGP68ed9EApmW4oJ7mnxLRudrRpVOwibm_R3SnZVZN3deGIqqC_nbwOUy7oK_jKq-G001PrrdbnBqDQudUDVRCSZ2KWt2lLVycfQWlFh1WsGjpD8/w426-h640/DB5E103B-69CE-43CD-B8F8-EF35DE0513BF.PNG" width="426" /></a></div><b><br /></b></div><div><b><br /></b></div><b>Teach them boundaries -</b> I think that one of the best ways of teaching anti-racism to children is to begin teaching them early that the entire world isn't theirs. Have you ever been at a playgroup and watched in awe as another mom just allowed her toddler to knock down everyone else's carefully structured blocks without saying anything? This happened to my toddler a few times. According to my culture this behavior would've been addressed immediately by the parent; however, when I noticed that courtesy isn't widespread here I had to step in and correct the behavior myself. Trust me. It usually took me gently setting a boundary one time before the mom quickly got it! Instructing our children to respect the person and property of others regardless of race at an early age is vital and a great place to start!<div><b><br /></b>
<b>Go out of your way to find diversity - </b>When we first moved into our neighborhood I didn't care that it was all white. We were on a quest to find a home closer to the country. Our neighbors had horses and that was all I needed! Of course I woke up a little when one neighbor, upon meeting me at the mailbox, said, "we're all happy that at least the house isn't vacant anymore". Micro-aggressive much! But I digress! I intended on sending my children to the public school but was met with a rude awakening. The student body wasn't diverse and there was no minority staff. My friend Megan of <a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocoolformiddleschool/">@toocoolformiddleschool </a>informed me that after desegregation in schools 62 years ago most black teachers were fired as white parents did not want black teachers teaching their kids. You can see our conversation <a href="https://www.instagram.com/tv/CBUUSP6gT0G/">here.</a> I couldn't bring myself to leaving my precious firstborn in a homogeneous atmosphere for 8 hours of the day. Especially after the warm welcome from our new neighbor. It was not how I desired for him to see the world. </div><div><br /></div><div>So I prayed and visited a private school 30 mins away. Upon orientation I met a Spanish speaking mom, a little Russian girl that couldn't stop following my son and a new family from Egypt along with white and black American families and others from Asia, Central, South America and the Caribbean. I thought to myself -- I could pay for this! It's hard to hate your friend that you grew up with from kindergarten! Today one of my sons have diverse best friends! In addition, we take our kids to a church outside of our community that's more diverse as well as a library and parks in more diverse towns. Exposure is important! Go the extra mile. If this isn't feasible for you because you live in Boise, Idaho or Lincoln, Nebraska then keep reading -- I have a tip for you at the end. <div>
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<b>Acknowledge the presence of black and brown people - </b>One thing that is a custom in the black culture is to greet people you see and to acknowledge their presence. As a black person if you walk into a room you say hello to everyone. This is cultural as we brought it with us from Africa. My Ethiopian friends kiss each other on the cheek three times and my Nigerian sister-in-love bows and greets every elder in the home that she visits. Practice saying hello when you go to a grocery store or park and see people that don't look like you. Let's bring back "good morning" and "good evening". Give black people a smile or eye contact and a nod to say "I see you". This practice will allow your children to not look past black and brown people. It is important for your kids to see you greeting a variety of persons.<br /><br />
<b>Purchase diverse toys and book - </b>Historically all cartoons, books and toys had white faces. Even bandages were meant to suit white skin...but I'm not going to open that can of worms. PBS kids is doing a good job at diversifying their imagery! We love Hero Elementary and Sid the Science Kid! Here are some pages on Instagram that have great diversity in toys and books; <a href="https://www.instagram.com/wildflowerlibertyleague/?hl=en ">@wildflowerlibertyleague</a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/diversebooks/">@diversebooks</a><br />
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<b>Admit your own prejudice to them- </b>I recently read the caption of a white mom who adopted a black child. She acknowledged that even with her black child buckled in his car-seat she locked her car door when she saw a black man walk by. This admission spoke volumes to me. I totally appreciated her ability to speak her truth! I think that one thing that our children need is for us to be honest. If you spoke out of prejudice, grabbed your purse when a black man walked by or passive aggressively did not invite your child's black friend to their birthday party admit to them that that action was wrong. You don't want to cry or burden them with your guilt. Just admit it, point it out and let them know that it's a process.<br />
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<b>Gather with black people - </b>We attend a predominantly black church and one of my best friends consistently came with her white family before relocating. Her words were "all the other churches are too boring, I love the lively singing here!" Because black people know what exclusion feels like we are very inclusive. Attend a church with a minority pastor, invite a black family over for a barbecue, or attend a ballgame of your child's friend of another ethnicity. Just gather.<br />
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<b>Talk to them about racism - </b>Just start yelling at the TV when news about injustice comes on! Say "that's racist!" Be straight forward! Black people have been yelling at the TV for a long time! They will remember your voice and even if racism doesn't end in your lifetime they'll remember and carry the torch to fix the issue that so greatly plagued their parents. Ignoring it will perpetuate the lie that it doesn't still exist. Covert, overt, systematic racism and implicit bias are still alive and well! <br />
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<b>Speak up to racist family members - </b>We all have to correct family members about something. Whether it's feeding your kids something you've decided against, conflict in your approach to discipline or just plain shady behavior! Let them know that in the presence of your child they are never to make racist or derogatory remarks. In my culture in the Caribbean their is strong color-ism due to remnants of colonialism. I've had to look family members in their eyes and sternly say that that era is over! You will not speak on the color of my children's skin! Make up in your mind that racism is over and be brave enough to correct it. You may even have to separate yourself for a time so that they can understand that you are serious. <br />
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<b>Diversify your friendships - </b>Naturally children of our friends become our kids' friends too! As mentioned earlier it's hard to allow something to persist that affects your friend. When a close friend tell us there reaction to an event or incident we tend not to brush it off. Even if racism doesn't happen to you you will begin to see it and call it out. I have friends that are white that point out racism and speak up for me and my family. Thus, being friends intimately with people that don't look like you is a revolution!<br />
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<b>Travel the world - </b>Get a passport and travel! The least racist adults I've met are the ones whose parents served as missionaries, were in the military, studied in a different country or traveled a lot. If you can't travel it's okay! We love watching <a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/migrationology" target="_blank">Mark Weins </a>on YouTube! He travels the entire world and eats! We live vicariously through him! He's been to Ghana, Jamaica, Pakistan, Brazil, India, China, Peru and the list goes on and on! We watch as a family and love it! It's like a virtual social studies class but better! Exposure to various cultures is important!<br />
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<b>Introduce them to black YouTubers - </b>My boys love <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpJlmVOckoFYvK4Mf7tM4bQ" target="_blank">Onyx Kids</a>. They are safe to watch and have tons of funny skits!<br /><br /><b>Research - </b>Educate yourself on racism! Here are YouTube resources; </div><div><br /></div><div><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BGjSday7f_8">On Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome </a></div><div><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YrHIQIO_bdQ">On Systematic Racism </a></div><div><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fr8G7MtRNlk">On Implicit Bias </a> </div><div><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nGtUwd-Rq0">On Anti-Racism books to read </a></div></div><div><br /></div><div>Finally, don't beat yourself up about it! if you've taken the time to google search "How to raise anti racist children?" you're most likely doing a spectacular job! </div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113438976025516456.post-9036776760146412072020-05-21T03:34:00.000-07:002020-05-21T12:38:53.420-07:00Tips for celebrating your anniversary in quarantine <div class="separator">
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We recently celebrated our 12 year wedding anniversary and I woke my husband up to, "OMG babe! Do you know what today is?" -- as I was logging in to get my kids' mandated quarantine homeschool started and the date casually showed up on the computer screen. His reply was, "yes babe...happy anniversary...I love you." To which I replied, "do you have anything planned?" And of course he said no. He was asleep; tired because having 4 kids at home while you still have to work means that you sometimes work after they go to bed. I determined to still celebrate and make it a memorable day! Here are some tips for celebrating a quarantine anniversary;</div>
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<b>1. Get dressed up!</b> - Yes I know that you can't go very far but I promise that you'll feel better if you put on some makeup and a nice dress and see him in a nice shirt and trousers for the occasion. Even if it's to eat a DoorDash meal, sit on the hood of your car and watch the sunset or take a bike ride on a paved trail! While dressed up you'll also be inclined to take more photos. You'll want to have photos to show your grandkids the time when you celebrated your wedding anniversary in a global pandemic! Getting dressed makes any occasion more memorable! </div>
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2. <b>Look on the bright-side! </b>- I know, I know...my idea of the bright side was wearing sunglasses on the beach in the Caribbean, Hawaii or Mexico as well. But hey! I realize that attitude is everything. If you sulk about the day being ruined it will be...if you say that you're going to make the day memorable it will be. My husband went out and bought some bikes...I rode on a trail in my fancy dress, stopped to smell the wildflowers, looked at the ducklings and listened to frogs croaking in the lake at sunset. The purple, yellow, blue, orange and green hues of the Seattle sunset was just so spectacular! I swear that mother earth has been thanking us all for staying inside so she can rest by rewarding us with beautiful sunsets! It was exhilarating. Honestly the attitude I brought to the day helped it to be the most memorable anniversary ever! And we were not too far from our home! Perspective is everything! </div>
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<b>3. Involve the kids! </b>My kids begged to be dropped off at their grandparents' home as it's what we do every year on our anniversary. However, I would not be able to forgive myself if we were carriers of COVID 19 and unknowingly got them ill. So although they begged we brought them along and involved them. We prayed to thank God for mom and dad's anniversary, had them tell us what they'd like for us to eat -- the debate was between pizza and Taco Bell and they got dressed up as well and rode their bikes with us. </div>
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It was a romantic memory for the entire family! The last time we celebrated with a kid was when we took our oldest to a fancy restaurant with us for our 1 year anniversary when he was 2 months old (yes, we had a honeymoon baby). He cried the whole time, I was engorged and had to nurse in a dress that was cute but not nursing friendly and I couldn't wait to leave! However, if we celebrated our love in a way that felt more organic to us it would've been no problem. A picnic in the park with our newborn baby as we tried some new fancy desserts would've been quite fine! I think that we'll involve them in our celebrations from here on out! </div>
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<b>4. Make it your own! </b>I'm an outdoorsy girl and my hubby loves photography/videography and sports. He enjoyed taking photos of us, I was in outdoor heaven as I stumbled upon a community garden on our ride and we enjoyed watching the Michael Jordan documentary when we got home. </div>
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You might hate the outdoors and the idea of riding into a swarm of sand flies on a date may have you mortified! And that it totally ok! Perhaps you enjoy cooking, crafting, singing, dancing, painting, watching movies, making movies, writing, trying new foods, driving, going on long walks, running, hiking and the list can go on forever. Whatever your "thing" is -- it will be a great time to introduce it to your signifiant other. There are so many great remote experiences available now. If you love art google "virtual paint and sip", if you enjoy photography get dressed up and take some photos, if you love cooking cook a destination themed meal such as Japanese, Italian or Indian. It's amazing how feed can wake up your senses. You can then watch a foreign movie from that country with subtitles. Stick to what sparks joy in you and the possibilities are endless! </div>
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<b>5. Makeover your bedroom! </b>As we're spending so much more time in our homes we might begin noticing projects that need to be done. One area that we tend to neglect and leave for last is our bedroom. I told my spouse that I want nothing more than to put money aside to dedicate to making our love nest more beautiful. I think that investing in the place where the 2 of you make the best memories...wink, wink...is a great way to commemorate your nuptials! </div>
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I recently celebrated my birthday and I have to say that the 30s is so much better than the 20s! My voice is bolder...I say yes and mean it and no and also mean it. The fear of being disliked has totally dissipated and the ability to set clear boundaries is so satisfying. No one really tells you when you're a woman. A strong feeling erupts and you must start declaring it.<br />
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The chase for authenticity in establishing who I am has now also extended in my personal style. Instead of going for uncomfortable heels and all the bells and whistles I decided to wear something that more represented by heart. A care free sole that doesn't like all the fuss. At my core I'm a simple, earthy woman. Don't get me wrong...frills, lace and bows certainly have their place but the truest version of myself is more casual chic. We spent the day on the water chasing whales...more on that in a later post.<br />
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I went with a beautiful cotton button down v-neck striped dress from Ross that was just $12.99, pink sandals and a denim jacket. More no fuss minimalist style to come.<br />
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One of our favorite outdoor activity is camping! We love being free and in the wild. For me, camping with kids is much easier than I thought it would be. Here are some tips that work well for us.<br />
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1. CAMP WITH FRIENDS - If it's your first time I would highly recommend that you camp with friends that have gone camping before. We had no idea how to put up a tent when we went camping the first time. It was so much better to have people around us that knew what they were doing. In addition, when you camp as a group, tasks such as cooking, tidying up and supervising the kids can be shared so its much less pressure on you.<br />
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2. INVEST IN A GOOD TENT - I got our tent at Target on clearance and it broke on our last camping trip! Thank goodness we were with a large group and someone had an extra tent! A friend told me that she's had hers for 15 years and it has held up well. Our goal is to eventually save up to buy <a href="https://www.cabelas.com/product/CABELAS-INSTINCT-ALASKAN-P-TENT/2455391.uts?productVariantId=4871141&WT.tsrc=PPC&WT.mc_id=GoogleProductAds&WT.z_mc_id1=04609105&rid=20&ds_rl=1252079&gclid=CjwKCAjwspHaBRBFEiwA0eM3kdlCpe-JRjpCks0AyMmzavoC8E9SjvV2mWIEQiBr4KUx3hDSgciQWhoCOEwQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds" target="_blank">this one </a>from Cabela's. We plan on using it for many years so the higher cost would be totally worth it! Some cost effective ones with good reviews are <a href="https://www.amazon.com/CORE-Person-Extended-Dome-Tent/dp/B016N7DFMI/ref=sr_1_9?s=outdoor-recreation&ie=UTF8&qid=1531254088&sr=1-9&keywords=tent" target="_blank">here </a> and <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Coleman-Sundome-6-Person-Dome-Tent/dp/B0788C4N1R/ref=sr_1_24?s=outdoor-recreation&ie=UTF8&qid=1531254088&sr=1-24&keywords=tent&th=1" target="_blank">here</a>.<br />
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3. PACK WARM CLOTHING - No matter how hot it is during the day the temperature drops at night. Pack enough warm sleepers, hoodies, sweaters, socks, hats etc.<br />
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4. RESEARCH THE CAMPSITE - It is important to me that the campsites we choose has restroom and shower facilities. Think about what your specific needs are and research the site beforehand.<br />
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5. PACK EASY FOODS TO COOK- Meals such as quick oats, hotdogs, baked beans and rice and spaghetti cook quickly. Plan each meal ahead of time and pack adequately. In additions if you have a child with specific allergies make sure that you pack for their specific needs.<br />
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6. ARRIVE DURING THE DAY - The worst thing is trying to put up a tent at nighttime. When you plan a trip try to schedule the day off at work so that you can get to the site early enough to set up the tent, mattress, cooking station etc.<br />
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7. EAT MEAL BEFORE ARRIVING - If we are arriving at lunch or dinner time we stop at a restaurant on the way to eat before we get to the camp site. This helps us not to have to rush to get a meal prepped and cooked when we just arrive. We can spend that time setting up securely, exploring the site or getting ready for bed.<br />
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8. SLEEPING GEAR - It is so important that everyone gets a good night's sleep for the camping trip to be successful. Invest in a quality air mattress, sleeping bags sleeping, cot etc. Also bring lots of warm blankets! I usually co sleep with the baby on the cot while everyone else sleeps on the air mattress. They even have <a href="https://www.cabelas.com/product/Disc-O-Bed-XL-Cot-Bunk-Beds/735034.uts?slotId=3" target="_blank">bunk cots</a>!<br />
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9. BRING BIKES & FAVORITE TOYS - Most camp sites have lovely trails for biking. In addition bring their favorite balls, blow up water toys, card games etc.<br />
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10. GARBAGE BAG - Remember to pack a couple garbage bags for dirty clothes, pull ups, diapers, garbage etc.<br />
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Camping is a cost effective fun summer activity that your kids would love! Happy camping!<br />
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Summer is in full swing and our house sounds louder as the days stretch longer. We are enjoying the sunshine! The boys are out of school and keeping me so busy! I know that I'd never get this time back so I'm soaking up each moment with them.<br />
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I love this simple romper look for summer! The ruffles at the bottom are so cute and these periwinkle purple shoes are my favorite. I paired them with a woven cotton rope bag that features the adorable fringes. This look would be great for a summer date night or picnic.<br />
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OMG! Where did 10 years go?! This May my husband and I celebrated our 10 year wedding anniversary and it's such a big milestone for us! Truly we still feel like newlyweds. I still get excited when he walks through the door after work and he still thinks I'm fine as wine. Here are 10 marriage tips that have helped us grow in love.<br />
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<u>1. Dream together</u> - We've recently began doing dream sessions together. It's been so great! Naturally I'm the dreamer and he's the planner; however, these sessions have been so good for us! We both share the things we'd like for the future such as where we'd like to live, education and career goals, what we hope for the children and trips we'd like to take. My wandering heart is happy and his logical heart gets to put plans in place to make our dreams become a reality.<br />
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<u>2. Don't sulk</u> - When I first got married I thought that a symbol of true love and connection was when your significant other just "get you". I'd have in my mind a list of things that my husband should just know about me without me even saying it and if he didn't I'd find myself sulking (upset but not saying it). When he'd ask me what was wrong I'd say "I'm fine". I'm so glad that he takes the time to pry and find me. I've learned to have the hard conversations and speak up. He can't "get it" unless I express it. <br />
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<u>3. He can't "make" me happy</u> - I've learned that no one outside of myself can truly make me happy. Happiness is an inner work. It comes from the knowledge of who you are and what you truly enjoy. The load of someone else's happiness is too much for another person to bare. I've taken on my own load to understand what truly sparks joy within myself and have begun doing those things.<br />
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<u>4. Go on dates</u> - I hate leaving my kids anywhere! However I've realized that it's important for our marriage to spend time alone from time to time. A baby sitter, grandparents or childcare at the gym while we work out truly helps us connect on a deeper level.<br />
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<u>5. Step in for each other</u> - There are no traditional gender roles in our marriage. If I need to go to work to make money while he works on a new business idea I do it. If he needs to help with laundry or dishes he just steps in and gets it done. We mutually love and respect each other enough to just step in. Sometimes we gauge each other's tolerance level and step in with the kids. If he's really tired I'd put them to bed and vice versa.<br />
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<u>6. Put God first </u>- God is everything to us. He is the glue that holds us together and the lens through which we choose to see each other. No matter how upset I get I stop and realize that he is truly God's best for me because He only gives good gifts. I'm His daughter and he is His son. We prayer with and for each other and that connection to God keeps us connected to each other.<br />
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<u>7. Tell the truth</u> - Above all we are truthful. I fell in love with my husband the moment that I realized that he wouldn't lie to spare my feelings or to save himself. He always told me the truth and that was so remarkable to me. We tell each other the truth even if it hurts. This level of honesty keeps us grounded. We know that if at any time we were to mess up we'd have to face each other with the truth and that knowledge keeps us committed.<br />
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<u>8. Don't gossip</u> - At the inception of our marriage we decided to never bring family or friends into our issues. This has saved us. We guard each other's reputation. What you focus on expands and we focus on the strengths of each other.<br />
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<u>9. Do and see new things together</u> - Whether it's visiting a waterfall, road tripping to another state, starting a new business venture or reading a new book together, we keep learning and discovering. New experiences spark joy in our lives.<br />
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<u>10. Laugh a lot</u> - Any moment can be a laughable moment in our household. We can be right in the middle of an argument and just burst out laughing. He'd say something like "you mad huh?" or mock my sulking and I'll ask him if he's getting old on me. Laughter is medicine and it keeps our marriage healthy. We go to comedy shows and try to go on double dates with hilarious friends! Listen...laughter is everything!<br />
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Confident boys are boys who don't seek permission to be themselves. They respect the world and protect theirs.<br />
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I've been a boy mom longer than I've known my own confidence. This has presented it's own challenges; however, the beautiful journey of boy motherhood continues to unfold. I see in my children a type of confidence that left me as a child and rediscovering it alongside them is amazing! Here are some tips on how to raise confident boys by a mom that's still learning.<br />
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<b>1. Let them fall</b> - When my oldest was a baby I was terrified when he fell. I would rush to his aid, scoop him up into my arms and frantically assure him that he would be ok. What was the problem? I wasn't ok. Most of the time he was just fine! Over time, my fear of him falling or failing started to teach him that it wasn't ok to fall. The insecurity I planted in love began to cripple his own ability to bounce back.<br />
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When boys fall or fail in life remain calm and watch before responding. Many times they come up with the solution by themselves and each time they get up they become more resilient.<br />
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<b>2. Let them work </b>- At the age of 2 our oldest started following his grandpa around the yard caring for chickens and helping in other little ways. Each week he'd get $5. Currently we pay them $2 when they mow the lawn. They have their own bank accounts and really value work in relation to money. This sense of independents builds their esteem and motivation.<br />
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<b>3. Let them read</b> - Literacy is the cornerstone of confidence at school! It's the key to every subject -- including math. If a child is behind in reading they begin to become unsure of themselves as they noticeably lag behind their peers. We've discovered that the main key to reading more fluently is to practice. We try to have each boy read to us daily, we read to them as well and also play audiobooks. We love Hooked on Phonics and the book " Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons" by Siegfried Engelmann for developing literacy.<br />
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<b>5. Let them lead (sometimes) </b>- Although the boys are young I try to respect their ability to make good decisions and submit to their choices sometimes. Little opportunities to lead come as they decide on what clothes to wear, what dinner they'd prefer, what books they'd like to read and what park they'd like to go to. Our friend who was in the military shared with us how their children lead at home and we've implemented it as well. It's such a good idea!<br />
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Each month we put a child in charge of organizing their brothers for bed. They must brush their teeth and put on pajamas by a particular time. If there is a conflict the brother in charge assigns decipline (usually pushups). If the offending brother still isn't cooperating it's brought up to the chain of command i.e. daddy. The brother in charge is responsible overall -- so instead of yelling at three kids to get their teeth brushed we can go to one and ask him the status of all three. Genius! It has been so cool seeing them learn to lead and respect each other. Not to mention that it frees up our time!<br />
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<b>6. Let them cry</b> - How many times do we hear "be tough" and "boys don't cry". I think that we stunt the emotional growth of our boys when we try to take away their ability to feel. This is why most men aren't able to articulate their feelings today. Men are human and I don't know a woman that wouldn't melt at the sight of a man crying. Try to notice their emotions and walk them through it. Even Jesus wept! Come on now!<br />
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<b>7. Let them be themselves</b> - No two children are alike. We do not create our children. Just like we don't create seeds. Everything that God has placed in them is already there--just like seeds already have in them the type of tree they are to be. Our job as parents are to provide the right environment for growth, notice the traits of the tree, prune a bit and watch them bloom into their purpose. I try to pay close attention to what the boys are naturally good at and encourage those passions. "<span style="color: #181818; font-family: "merriweather" , "georgia" , serif; font-size: 14px;">Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.”</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #181818; font-family: "merriweather" , "georgia" , serif; font-size: 14px;">― </span><a class="authorOrTitle" href="https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/61105.Dr_Seuss" style="color: #333333; font-family: Lato, "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; text-decoration: none;">Dr. Seuss</a><br />
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<b>8. Let them be affirmed</b> - I am who I am today because my mom always said "when you get older you're going to be somebody". Those words have taken me through poverty, relocating to a different country without her, attending college as a statistic, being in boardrooms with no one that looked like me and the nay saying of my own mind. We as parents are prophets in the lives of our children. When we speak life into them it will come to pass! When I drop them off at school I tell them that they are created for greatness. When they fall behind in a subject I tell them that one day they will be the top of the class. Dream big for them mamas! Tell them that they can in a world that tries to tell them that they can't.<br />
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<b>9. Let them be loved </b>- Love, unattached to performance, is the greatest confidence builder! We do a great damage to the emotional and spiritual growth of our children when we hold back our love and dish it out when they win that race, bring home a high score in math or make a cool science project. Our love should be constant. When they break a glass, walk up to them and say "accidents happen, let me help you clean it up". Love them as much in the hard times as in the good times. The bible says that noting can separate us from the love of God. Let's mirror that kind of amazing love for our children. The book "The 5 Love Languages of Children" by Gary Chapman is great!<br />
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<b>10. Let them spend time with us </b>- Nothing says "you are important" like time spent together with your children. I believe that the quality of the time is even more important than the quantity of the time. If you are a working parent carve out a few hours on the weekend and say no to everyone and everything else to spend time with your boy hiking, skipping rocks, having a picnic or going to the zoo. Talk to them while you're out doing something together. Boys open up a lot more side by side rather than face to face.<br />
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<b><br /></b><b>11. Let them know God - </b>It's impossible to fully know who you are without knowing who's you are. Faith is everything to our family. There is such a confidence in knowing the love of God and oh how he has shown up miraculously in our lives. As a family we worship together, pray and read the bible. I am always sure to plant passages like Jeremiah 29:11 in there hearts.<br />
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<b>12. Let them try - "</b>Mom! Let me try!" The sweetest words from a two year old! Oh, and this one! "Myself, myself...I want to do it myself". Whether it's mixing batter for pancakes, planting seeds, mopping, tying their shoes, washing dishes or helping change baby brother’s diaper -- children that try build their autonomy and confidence. Sometimes it takes us a bit longer to complete the task when they try but over time you'll discover that they can be such great helpers!<br />
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Those are some tips for raising confident boys. There is so much more that I can add but this post would become a book. In what ways to you intentionally build up the confidence of your kiddos?<br />
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You guys the sun is finally out in Seattle!!! My heart is so happy! Mommas, if you are looking for a go-to look for spring I definitely recommend a jumpsuit! You can dress is up or down. I've worn this look for playdates, evenings at the park and on a date with the hubby. With a jumpsuit you don't have to worry too much about pairing items...just find a nice pair of sandals and a spring hat and you're golden! </div>
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One year is officially here and what can I say?<br />
We love you more with each passing day.<br />
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In each brother you have a perfect friend.<br />
May your adventures together never end.<br />
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You're toppling now with places to go.<br />
Know that wherever your journey takes you we'll always love you so.<br />
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God is on your side so your future is bright.<br />
On His word may you hold on tight.<br />
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Daddy carries you on shoulders strong.<br />
May you find in us a happy place to belong.<br />
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So run and play child of mine.<br />
God is with you so there'll always be sunshine.<br />
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It's not that we're lazy. It's just that we find it incredibly boring. I notice a pattern. When I know that I have to clean I walk outside and start pulling weeds, browse the web, start writing a blog post, take a shower, stare out of the window mindlessly, start painting with my kids....anything but cleaning. I do like to organize, paint, decorate etc. but the process of doing routine things daily is mind numbing. Here are some tips on how I trick my brain into cleaning.<br />
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<b>1. CLEAN FOR THE TOMORROW YOU</b> - The today me does not want to clean however the tomorrow me would be so grateful! When I clean now I ask myself "What would the tomorrow me like?" I then begin cleaning as a gift to the future me.<br />
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<b>2. LISTEN TO SOMETHING </b>- My mother is the cleanest most organized person I've ever met! Thinking back on my childhood she would always have the radio tuned to a talk show while she cleaned. Any Trinidadians remember Tony and Dale in the morning? I think that that's where I got my love for talk radio from! Now while I clean I put on a podcast or an online talkshow in the background. It tricks my brain into thinking that what I'm doing is actually enjoyable. Try not to put on anything that requires watching a screen because that would defeat the purpose. Trust me, I've tried! lol<br />
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<b>3. HAVE LESS - </b>Having a closet 1/4 full with pieces that you love is much better than a jam packed closet with items that are just ok to you. I apply this same principle to each of our living spaces. I don't have a lot of decor but what we have we love. I loved reading "The life Changing Art Of Tidying Up" by Marie Kondo! It's a must read and if you're a busy momma like me I'd recommend getting the audio book so that you can listen while you're on the go.<br />
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In the book she talks about how to effectively declutter and I've found cleaning to be way more efficient since I've applied some of her principles.<br />
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<b>4. SET A TIMER</b> - Have you ever had someone call you and say that they'd be by in 45 minutes and you manage to clean more in those 45 minutes than you would all day? Lol! I write a list and set the timer for 1 hr and I get a lot more done! That way I have the rest of the day for the things that I enjoy more; like adventuring with the kids, cooking and gardening.<br />
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<b>5. DON'T FOLD CLOTHES </b>- Father Lord! I know! I cringed too while typing it! But listen, sometimes something has to give! So, I have a no fold system with my kids clothes. Shirts, pants and pajamas have their own drawers for each child and I simply put the items in the respective drawers. During the week I go through and fold the items if I get a chance but let me tell you...with 4 boys the no fold system is better than them picking from a laundry pile on the couch all week. At least it's clean and in the drawers! <br />
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<b>6. TEAM EFFORT </b>- In our home everyone pitches in! I try for the most part to tell the boys that school is their main job for right now but when I see that they don't have a heavy workload they help me unpack the dishwasher, load the dryer, clean mirrors, appliance surfaces etc. They also have to clean up their toys and put them into their respective bins.<br />
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My husband helps to wash dishes sometimes and also helps with laundry.<br />
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<b>7. DAILY CLEANING RITUALS</b> - We each must create the ideal cleaning schedule that works for our family. My morning routine for cleaning includes, making the beds, wiping down bathroom counters, unloading the dishwasher and putting in a load of laundry. This takes about 20 - 30 minutes. At night I load the dishwasher, put away clothes, wipe down kitchen counters and sweep kitchen and dining room areas.<br />
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I have a list of 5 chores that I need to accomplish during week. They are; mopping, scrubbing tubs and toilet, cleaning appliances, cleaning mirrors and vacuuming. I try not to designate a particular day to do each. I just choose one according to how I feel that day. Sometimes if I'm extra motivated I'll do all of them in one day to free up my time for the other days!<br />
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<b>9. HIRE HELP </b>- If you can I'd totally recommend hiring help for cleaning! Having someone come 1 - 2 times per month to clean your home is totally worth it! Think about it momma. You are a nurse, teacher, cook, maid, driver, counselor, interior designer, wife...not to mention if you work or attend school. It's a lot! If cleaning isn't your gift outsource it to focus on what your actual gift is!<br />
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I hope that these cleaning tips motivate you to do some spring cleaning! Remember, tidying is a skill and the more you practice it the better you'll become!<br />
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I use to think that giving until it hurt meant that I was a better wife, mother, daughter, sister, friend and Christian. If I wasn't dog tired at the end of the day that meant I wasn’t enough... I didn’t do enough so I wasn't enough. The first time I heard of the term self-care I thought it was related to being selfish and of course a good Christian mom couldn’t be selfish. This practice of self depletion led me to become resentful, grumpy and mentally and spiritually drained. When I was totally empty a rant that went something like this would be unleashed onto my family; "I'm done, I'm the only one that ______!" Fill in the blank with any household chore.<br />
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However, the truth is that my working to gain love and approval was a manifestation of low self esteem. When I found out that Christ thought that I was amazing just for waking up and being my life changed for the better! I didn't have to perform to have self worth. Listen y'all, Jesus practiced self-care on a daily basis! He did not give until he was faint. He ate, slept, walked and kept company with those that replenished his heart. Here are 10 self care tips that replenish my heart and leaves me a better mama for my family;<br />
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<b>1. Sleep</b> - I listen to my body and when it says you need to rest, I rest! Sometimes I ask my hubby to put the boys to bed and I retire early. I also catch a nap on the weekend when he's home to watch the boys. Sleep is so rejuvenating! All my problems go away after a good nap or night's rest! Listen, Jesus slept when he needed! Remember when he was at the bottom of the boat sleeping while the disciples thought that they were going to die in the storm? He was like "mans is tired!" lol.<br />
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<b>2. Journaling - </b>Journaling is my way of getting all of my thoughts out of my head! Somehow writing things down feeds my soul! When my thoughts are on paper I can better tackle my daily tasks because I'm not hung up on my perceived problems.<br />
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<b>3. Working out - </b>Lets be honest! I'm not packing up my car to go to anyone's gym! My life changed when my friend Tanzy of <a href="https://www.facebook.com/revamprightnow/posts/1695228294053980" target="_blank">Revamp Fitness </a> introduced me to Tabata Workouts when she spoke at a women's conference I attended. Her story is amazing! I started squeezing little 4 minute workout videos like <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z4ziWoCuf5g" target="_blank">this one</a> and <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MIqvpJaUFJA" target="_blank">this one</a> in my daily routine and feel so refreshed after! If you struggle with anxiety and depression you have to work out! It's your cure!<br />
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<b>4. Time in Nature - </b>I love to spend lots of time in nature with my family! In nature, I sit silent and listen to the birds sing or a gushing waterfall. Sometimes I rest my head against the strength of a tree, close my eyes and feel the breeze flow across my face. We were made for the outdoors. These experiences help me to be filled in ways I can't explain! <br />
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5. <b>Long Shower or Bath - </b>I love to buy sweet smelling body washes and bath bombs and take my time in the shower or bath. Many of my best ideas come while I'm taking a shower! I think it's because my mind is calm enough to think.<br />
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<b>6. Nailpolish - </b>I love doing my nails. I feel more polished when they are done! I choose not to go to the salon and get them done because I'd much rather spend that money on something else; however, I love the Sally Hansen Miracle Gel Duo Nail Color! NOT AN AD! I can do dishes and not worry about my nail polish chipping. The 15 minutes a week it takes for me to get my nails done is so worth it! Another option that a mama mentioned to me was to put one coat of nail polish on each day. This way it covers any chips and lasts longer. You'd want to do that with a more sheer color of course! I like flesh toned shimmery colors by Essie.<br />
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<b>7. Create Something</b> - My creative outlet is writing, yours might be baking, knitting or woodwork. We were born to create! Take a little time each week to reach inside of yourself and pull a part of you out onto a page, a cake, music, hairstyle or an art piece.<br />
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<b>8. Podcasts or Audiobooks</b> - In a house full of loud testosterone I've found head phones to be so helpful! While I do household chores I put in headphones, put the baby in a carrier on my back and tune everything out for about 20 to 30 minutes. My current favorite podcast is "<a href="https://www.therapyforblackgirls.com/podcast/" target="_blank">Therapy for Black Girls</a>" and I love non fiction auto biography books.<br />
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<b>9.</b> <b>Childcare - </b>I'm a total helicopter mom but I realize that a couple hours at grandma and grandpa's house while I go grocery shopping or to watch a movie is ok. I come back refreshed and a better mama! The YMCA is a great option for some mommy time. You can drop off your littles while attending a class or working out.<br />
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<b>10.</b> <b>Affirmations - </b>Sometimes the negative self talk we gathered from our family of origin, a bad work experience or an unsafe individual can dominate our mind, paralyzing us. I choose a couple affirmations and repeat it every time negative self talk comes up! My favorites are, " I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made" Psalm 139:14 and Psalm 27:1 "The Lord is my light and my salvation whom shall I fear?" Other great ones are; "I love myself and speak gently to myself", "I carry strength and resilience in me", "I am enough" and "I honor my own life path". There are so many! Your can look on pinterest or google "self care affirmations". They key is to just start with one or two so that you don't get overwhelmed. Write them on your bathroom mirror, desk, doorway on index cards or in your phone notes to remember.<br />
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I promise that if you intentionally gift yourself with one of these per day you'll feel awesome!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113438976025516456.post-77820012912622415162018-02-02T09:59:00.000-08:002018-03-23T15:55:51.179-07:00Basic Mommy Outfit <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I've been living in sweaters lately. As a mommy it can be hard to think about style as we often put everyone else first. I combat that by keeping a stock of clothing that I love in basic colors...grey, beige, black, brown, white and navy. That way something is bound to match and look chic! My mommy outfit this winter has been some variation of leggings, booties and a sweater. I just love the pom poms on this one! You can't not smile when you're wearing pom poms!! I usually snazz things up a bit with a fun lip color and head out the door!<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #2e2e2e; font-family: "arimo"; font-size: 13px; letter-spacing: 1px;">Jeggings: <a href="http://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/product.do?vid=1&pid=602404012" style="color: #414141; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">OLD NAVY</a></span><br />
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Winter is moving along nicely in the Pacific Northwest and since our family have been vegan I'm having a grand time coming up with some tasty vegan dishes! Here is my much requested lentil soup recipe that I know you'll enjoy! It's my favorite comfort food in the winter. Not to mention that it's packed with protein, iron, potassium and folate!<br />
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1 cup dried brown lentils<br />
4 potatoes, cut into bite size cubes<br />
2 carrots, chopped<br />
2 celery stalks, chopped<br />
1/2 bell pepper chopped<br />
5 Baby Bella mushrooms, sliced<br />
1 onion diced<br />
3 cloves garlic<br />
3 sprigs of thyme<br />
1 pinch dried oregano<br />
1/2 can tomato paste<br />
1 can diced tomatoes<br />
1 tablespoon oil (I use grape seed or avocado oil but you may use oil of your choice)<br />
salt and pepper to taste<br />
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Step 1 - Place lentils in a large saucepan, add enough water to cover by 1 1/12 inches and boil until soft about 15 minutes. Once they are soft remove from pot into a large bowl.<br />
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Step 2 - Heat oil in saucepan over medium heat and add onions and thyme until onions are transparent. Add celery, potatoes, carrots, bell pepper, mushrooms and cooked lentils to pot and enough water to cover by 2 inches. Stir in diced tomatoes, tomato paste, oregano, salt and pepper. Allow to boil until potatoes are soft about 15 minutes.<br />
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Step 3 - Add 1 cup elbow noodles once potatoes are soft and boil for 7 minutes.<br />
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Taste, adjust for salt and pepper and enjoy!<br />
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As moms we all have a very powerful role. Being the queen of our home means that we are the ones that set the atmosphere of the foundation that our children will draw upon years into the future. I think in words and one word that I'd like my home to be described as is cozy. Here are some tips for creating a cozy home.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>1 / EXTRA PILLOWS + BLANKETS</b></span></h3>
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I love a couch full of soft pillows and keep a basket of extra blankets in the living room for my family and guests to use. I try to choose pillows with removable covers to that if the boys spill or dirty them during a pillow fights it'll be ok. </div>
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I am unapologetically a blanket hoarder and believe that you can never have enough! Whether it's snuggling up for a movie, keeping the boys warm when they are sick or making a friend cozy on my couch as we get into deep conversation...a soft blanket helps when building cozy memories. </div>
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There is so much beauty in the world and sometimes being indoors for hours makes us forget. I like to bring that beauty in by adopting a lot of tropical plant babies :) It's a bit tricky having indoor plants with kids; however, after some coaching they are now understanding that indoor plants aren't for tearing, eating or toppling over. There is a sense of calm that having plants indoors bring. Not to mention that they help to clean the air for us! I purchase most of my plants from Trader Joe's and love giving and receiving them as gifts. </div>
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Have you ever smelled something that took you straight back to a place? Infusing different yummy smells into your home makes you just want to spend the day indoors. Whether it's the crisp fresh scent of lemon oil in a diffuser, a glade scented plugin or a seasonal candle, you are bound to set a calm tone to your home by choosing a great scent! Currently I'm loving the Mandarin Berry candle from Target! </div>
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I actually hate cleaning! I come from a long line of awesome women that clean to relax but that gene skipped over me! I'm totally a right side of the brain person and the monotony of cleaning every day bores me incredibly! However, I cannot deny the calmness that comes along with a clean home. I try to follow a simple cleaning routine daily even though I'd rather skip it for something I love doing more i.e. cooking or gardening. If, like me, you dislike cleaning I strongly suggest getting a professional cleaner to come in once or twice per month to clean. Listen, there is no shame in the game! The proverbs 31 woman had helpers! It gives you more flexibility to do the things that you are more gifted at. </div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;">To infuse coziness into your personal space choose paint and furniture colors that are more neutral and accent with a brighter color if you love bright colors. Think about colors as they naturally appear in nature. The sky in blue or grey, clouds are white, sand is brown, trees are green etc. We see more vibrant colors speckled around such as red, yellow, orange and purple but they are not as dominant in nature. Natural colors calm the mind and help to replenish your energy. </span><br />
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There is something about fairy lights and Christmas lights that is just so naturally comforting. I don't believe that they are only meant for Christmas time! String some lights on top of a dresser, desk or piano, behind a couch or around a window for a cozy touch! </div>
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Every mama needs her own space. A space to read, create and pray. It can be a chair in a corner, a pouf on the floor, an office or, like I've created, a desk with a lamp artwork and flower. This is my happy space. I keep a blanket on my chair for when I wake up early and it's cold. In order to make cozy spaces for your family you must make a cozy space for yourself! </div>
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Cheers to the New Year and to making your home cozy for yourself and for those you love! </div>
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Fear gripped me as you opened the door to my unknown heart </div>
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Filling my time with to-dos so that I wouldn’t fall apart </div>
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And all that I could do in it was remember my childhood of strife </div>
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No! I would avoid you. I would run far from you I would cling to people that my heart didn’t belong to </div>
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Hide me you, hide me you. See how wide I smile so you don’t see the blue?</div>
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But alas, I could run no longer..and embracing you would only make me stronger </div>
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Afraid of what I might find you showed me that there was nothing I lacked </div>
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The beauty was always there...now I handle her with care and I owe it all to you...solitude. </div>
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I mother best when I'm out in nature. Where there is no laundry to fold, no carpet to be vacuumed and no dishes to wash. Where the air is clean, the river runs slowly through the boulders and silence is so heavy that you can feel it. Find your mothering place. A place where you can happily mother. When you do...go there often.</div>
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My family recently visited Paradise at Mt. Rainier National Park. Our goal is that the boys have a bonded appreciation for nature that they carry along with them for their entire lives and visits to amazing National Parks such as this one imprints memories that would last a lifetime. They had fun filling out the Junior Ranger worksheets and getting their badges, chasing each other up the trail and searching for animal tracks in the snow. </div>
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The drive to the Park from Seattle is about 1 1/2 hours. We spent most of the journey playing eye spy and it was so funny to guess the things that they spied on the way. We packed sandwiches and CapriSuns and ate with friends that we met their. Once we decided to head for the trail the snow stopped so we were able to enjoy the view even more. While walking my second oldest decided to step off the trail for a bit..just then a man that spoke little english said "No, Bear!" I thought that he was joking but visitors walking down showed me the photo. Talk about panic! My little black behind was like, "Heck no, my babies ain't feelna die out here" lol. Hubby reassured me that it was fine and we made it up the trail and back with no problem. I tell ya...I'd follow this guy anywhere. </div>
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The park is great for families and well traveled with lots of visitors from around the world. The trail is paved and easily walkable. There is also an Inn close by if you'd like to stay longer but it makes for a great day trip! The cost to get in for the day is $25 and I think that the best time to visit is in the Spring, Summer and Fall -- when the roads are easily drivable without too much snow. </div>
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Overall it was an amazing trip and I'd definitely go again...bear sighting and all :) </div>
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Woop woop! Fall is here! 'Tis the season for brisk fall walks, pumpkin everything, sweaters and football parties! My simplest fall go to style is all black. Black is always classy and the layered bell sleeves on this top gives the simple outfit a bit more intricacy. To divert a bit from the monochromatic black I wore taupe booties. I wear this look to lunch/dinner dates, school events that require more than jeans and a t-shirt and just when I want to feel a bit more done up. Black bell sleeves are a staple this season for me and you'll probably see it again styled another way.<br />
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